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Braces in the UK when living abroad?

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dasza79 · 15/06/2024 12:50

Hi all!
We live abroad, left the UK a few years ago. My partner works for a British company and pays UK taxes and NI as well.
Both kids need braces, which are somewhat pricey where we live. I'm curious whether it's at all possible to get them in the UK and how to get round it? We still have an English address we use for some purposes (banking etc).
To clarify - I'm only thinking about it becasue we do pay our NI in the UK, I wouldn't do it otherwise.

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dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:29

OptimismvsRealism · 15/06/2024 15:04

I'm afraid I don't believe that op's partner is paying UK taxes if they have been overseas for a number of years. Possible he's paying the very low class 3 amount to keep his state pension entitlement topped up.

Well, that's not cool. I really don't appreciate your lack of belief. Why would I lie about it? We've been away for 4 years and he pays the income tax appropriate to his income, far from the retirement age. I'd be embarrassed to accuse people of lying without having any solid reasons to.

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nearlysummerhooray · 15/06/2024 15:30

Quite apart from it being a shitty immoral thing to do, unless your kids teeth are awful you wouldn't get it on the NHS, and surely the cost of flying back and forth would outweight the benefits?

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:31

GrandHighPoohbah · 15/06/2024 13:34

How expensive is it where you live? If you're coming over every 8 weeks for appointments, wouldn't the cost of that offset the free treatment? Also, it would be a pain if you had to come over for a broken braces appointment, eg if a wire breaks between appointments. It happens and needs fixing.

Yeah, I'm not sure how the logistics would work... Probably not worth it really.

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Autumcolors · 15/06/2024 15:32

We also live in a country where braces are very expansive.

Are you near the border of another country? Treatment there may be cheaper.
Are your kids young enough for dental insurance? It reduces the costs of braces.

When both my DC had braces we often had issues where we had to go back because bit broke or fell off or they had pain. This meant more appointments.

Ellerby83 · 15/06/2024 15:34

LemonCitron · 15/06/2024 14:36

@Ellerby83 was that a few years ago? The criteria changed relatively recently.

Ds1 had his brace fitted in 2017 Ds2 in 2022 and Ds3 2 weeks ago.
Maybe I'm underplaying how bad they were but with ds1 and ds2 the main issue was one canine which was in front of the other teeth as well as gaps and general unstraightness. Dc3 a bit worse (not sure of the correct terms) but a couple of the bottom teeth the bite was in front of the top teeth and vice versa.

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:34

nearlysummerhooray · 15/06/2024 15:30

Quite apart from it being a shitty immoral thing to do, unless your kids teeth are awful you wouldn't get it on the NHS, and surely the cost of flying back and forth would outweight the benefits?

Why shitty and immoral? Because we don't live there? I know of people who have been away for even longer and still get child benefit because they haven't declared change of address. That's shitty. Using services that are paid for? How is that immoral? It is paid for, we haven't used NHS since leaving 4 years ago... We don't steal benefits, get everything for free like some. So, who would have been hurt this way?

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dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:36

Nix32 · 15/06/2024 13:36

Very long waiting lists - approximately 2 years. Issues if you something breaks and you need a quick appointment.

There. Sweet and short and good reasoning without preaching 🙂. Appreciated.

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EasterlyDirection · 15/06/2024 15:39

Seriously the logistics are hard enough when you are resident here (admittedly it was worse for both mine because of the pandemic but still). Regular appointments, the odd extra one at short notice because of breakages, cancellations because the orthodontist was ill. One of mine was still finishing treatment when he went to uni and organising his last few appointments was a nightmare around his lectures, my work, travel time. Even if it's legal you'd be crazy to consider this. I am SO glad we're done with it and we live within a couple of miles of the orthodontist clinic.

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:39

PosiePerkinPootleFlump · 15/06/2024 13:46

My kids were referred by nhs dentist, then nhs orthodontist made separate decision whether to treat on nhs. One qualified, two didn’t. As well regular appointments they also need to go at v short notice if something breaks.
NI is a fairly small amount of the tax you’d pay if you were resident, and will presumably also give you a right to a uk state pension. The idea that paying it would qualify you to get free uk orthodontic treatment is nuts.

My partner works remotely for a British company and has been paying taxes in the UK since we have left. It's due to an agreement between the countries and lasts 10 years.

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Invisimamma · 15/06/2024 15:43

I'm not sure if it would be possible if you don't already have an NHS dentist. My teen was referred to the orthodontist by our NHS dentist 18 months ago and we're still waiting on the initial appointment.
If you're new to the area where we live you have zero chance of getting registered with an NHS dentist.

GrandHighPoohbah · 15/06/2024 15:44

Ceramiq · 15/06/2024 14:58

NHS orthodontics are terrible and your children don't qualify. Do them a favour and get good quality orthodontics where you live.

I disagree - both my DC received excellent NHS orthodontic treatment.

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:45

siameselife · 15/06/2024 15:06

DH lived abroad and paid UK taxes and NI, that isn't unusual but you still aren't resident so don't have access to healthcare or university education at UK residents rates.

The university thing is an interesting one. It's differs slightly between England and Scotland, I believe. It's 3 years of residency that are required, we'll probably consider moving back in time to make it work for the kids.
It's all quite complicated in terms of taxes, legibility and so on. Many things are difficult to anticipate ahead.
Interesting to see many ready to jump in and judge without actually answering the questions asked or without knowing the ful picture. Rather unpleasant really.

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dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:48

Interesting outburst. Who would be exploited and how do you justify the rest of the insults based on the information I have provided?

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dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:49

Wow. A lot of insults coming my way. Who would have been exploited in the light of all the information provided? Who would have been stolen from?

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Iwasafool · 15/06/2024 16:13

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:49

Wow. A lot of insults coming my way. Who would have been exploited in the light of all the information provided? Who would have been stolen from?

It isn't ok legally is it, you know that and you have acknowledged it. Regardless of any of that it would be a nightmare because of all the checkups so it honestly wouldn't be worth it. I found it hard to arrange round work and school and the cancelled/changed appointments didn't help. If you can afford it just pay and get it done.

Sloejelly · 15/06/2024 16:20

Teentaxidriver · 15/06/2024 15:11

I am not sure that “nuts” is the correct adjective. NI pays for the state pension. OP fancies helping herself to some free dentistry. I think exploitative, venal, greedy, tight, dishonest, immoral, abusive are words that I would choose.

This. OP you are looking to commit fraud in order to avail yourself of something you are not entitled to. I am guessing if you are paying UK income tax and NI that is because your DH has worked out it would be cheaper than paying it elsewhere and being paid overseas and having to ‘import’ the money at a later date.

dunkdemunder · 15/06/2024 16:22

@Teentaxidriver

I am not sure that “nuts” is the correct adjective. NI pays for the state pension. OP fancies helping herself to some free dentistry. I think exploitative, venal, greedy, tight, dishonest, immoral, abusive are words that I would choose.
Why?
If the OP is correct and they are paying UK taxes and NI then why exactly should they be entitled? What are they getting for those taxes they are paying. They are saving the uk taxpayer by not using schools, NHS, any other government service.

It seems incredible to me that the Uk will tax people but not offer them anything that the tax is being paid for.

Longdueachange · 15/06/2024 16:23

We paid private, otherwise waiting list was 3+ years. It cost us about £3,800, so it depends on how that compare to other countries. You've got to factor in travel to and from the UK every couple of months. I don't fancy your chances NHS if you are resident here, as you won't get a referral if you don't have a dentist.

Ponderingwindow · 15/06/2024 16:27

People are saying 8 weeks, but sometimes the appointment intervals are more frequent. Sometimes there are problems. It’s completely impractical not to be close to the orthodontist.

MissRainbowBrite · 15/06/2024 16:29

As you mentioned a palate expander my daughter has recently gone from that to train tracks. In the turning phase of the expander she needed weekly appointments plus the 2 appointments for the mould and then the fitting. For those 6 weeks we felt like we lived at the hospital, and we also had an extra 3 in one week when the expander broke.
I would say it's probably not worth your while.

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 16:36

Sloejelly · 15/06/2024 16:20

This. OP you are looking to commit fraud in order to avail yourself of something you are not entitled to. I am guessing if you are paying UK income tax and NI that is because your DH has worked out it would be cheaper than paying it elsewhere and being paid overseas and having to ‘import’ the money at a later date.

Right. Firstly, I was looking for advice not for moral education class :-) Secondly - you can guess all you want, or you can ask questions and read the answers. Which part of your assumption is the "bad" action? Is it not quite normal, in general, to seek paying as little in taxes as legally possible or do you have some form of self-flagillation fetish where you'd be happy to pay, let's say. 70% of your income plus other bills? Clearly, if I'm looking for cheaper ways of sorting my kids' teeth it suggests that we're not sitting on a goldmine. Why is paying any government a lot of money a good thing, and trying to avoid it a bad one? For normal people, not big companies or millionaires? Also, seriously, when I asked te question I wasn't even sure about the residency requirenments...

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Iwasafool · 15/06/2024 16:42

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 16:36

Right. Firstly, I was looking for advice not for moral education class :-) Secondly - you can guess all you want, or you can ask questions and read the answers. Which part of your assumption is the "bad" action? Is it not quite normal, in general, to seek paying as little in taxes as legally possible or do you have some form of self-flagillation fetish where you'd be happy to pay, let's say. 70% of your income plus other bills? Clearly, if I'm looking for cheaper ways of sorting my kids' teeth it suggests that we're not sitting on a goldmine. Why is paying any government a lot of money a good thing, and trying to avoid it a bad one? For normal people, not big companies or millionaires? Also, seriously, when I asked te question I wasn't even sure about the residency requirenments...

I don't know what the NHS are likely to do but is it worth risking a conviction? I really don't think it is because the whole thing would be a nightmare to do long distance. I think I'd concentrate on the practicalities rather than arguing about morals.

pizzaHeart · 15/06/2024 16:45

The waiting list is about 2 years. Then you have an appointment for an assessment and depending on the situation you may need to remove some teeth ( hopefully not but it means another waiting list to the hospital).
You have to attend follow up appointments e.g every 8 weeks, DD’s braces once were damaged (and believe me we were super careful) so she needed urgent appointment. The length of treatment is different for different children so again something difficult to plan around.

nearlysummerhooray · 15/06/2024 16:46

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 15:34

Why shitty and immoral? Because we don't live there? I know of people who have been away for even longer and still get child benefit because they haven't declared change of address. That's shitty. Using services that are paid for? How is that immoral? It is paid for, we haven't used NHS since leaving 4 years ago... We don't steal benefits, get everything for free like some. So, who would have been hurt this way?

The NHS is for UK residents.
You aren't UK resident.

dasza79 · 15/06/2024 16:48

dunkdemunder · 15/06/2024 16:22

@Teentaxidriver

I am not sure that “nuts” is the correct adjective. NI pays for the state pension. OP fancies helping herself to some free dentistry. I think exploitative, venal, greedy, tight, dishonest, immoral, abusive are words that I would choose.
Why?
If the OP is correct and they are paying UK taxes and NI then why exactly should they be entitled? What are they getting for those taxes they are paying. They are saving the uk taxpayer by not using schools, NHS, any other government service.

It seems incredible to me that the Uk will tax people but not offer them anything that the tax is being paid for.

Really thank you for that imput. People get crazy offensive whenever taxes are brought up. For not paying the income tax where we live, for wanting to use it to our benefit in the country we do pay them in... It's not even like we have a choice in this, however if it does come up to paying them here we might decide to go back to the UK because here they are insanely high with little returns. Like, what would the commentators have us do? Not live abroad? Not seek best ways to save in any legal way possible? I'd rather see the system being fair on everyone and guarantee good returns on the income tax - decent health care and public services, otherwise it does feel like theft when you have to leave half of your wages in the public pocket. It's not like I'm planning on using services that aren't paid for... Anyhoo, it does seem like it would be too much hassle, which has been pointed out helpfully.

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