Triplets, thanks for letting me know about harry, I had everything crossed, thou it was difficult cos I spent rather a lot of time sitting on my hands
I am glad Harrys op is done and he got throu the op safely.
I am wide awake and turning things over in my head, the meetiing was extremely difficult, MIL was extremely difficult she managed civil to start with, once she had got me to agree to her visting alone on tue & Thursday morning she moved on to abusive, she was warned on many occaisions that she needed to calm down.
she said " everyone that knows me likes me, everyone that knows her hates her"
I will post more later as Steve has just woken.