Just had the phone call to say ....STEVE IS COMING HOME ON MONDAY !

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OJ, I am beyond words. How dare she come into your house and accuse you of giving Steve an overdose. How dare she say that Steve wants a divorce. What planet is his sister on??? . I think you are wise to have others there with you, who can step in & draw the line. You shouldn't have to feel scared in your own home, I admire the fact that you are still willing to let her back in your house. I'm sure others would not be so forgiving. Please call me tonight if you want to chat. You need to know that there are plenty of us who are supporting you & right behind you. xxx

i feel very blessed to have so much support here
we have had a busy day, steve me and the kids and carer had a fish & chip supper, steve managed a few chips
i have sorted out a few nights for mates to come round so i feel safer with that.
steve is much weaker and struggling to hold his head up, i don't know how long steve has left, it is elliots birthday in 2 weeks time and he says dad can't die before then as he has to have some birthday cake with him.
i haven't heard anything from his family today
the carer that was here last night told me today that his sister and brother were telling steve he needed to go and live with them, steve told them he was staying here where he belongs

good.

Steve is right, he does belong with you and the kids.

xx

your children must be such a source of strength for you OJ, so sweet of Eliot. So sad for all of you. I wish you a peaceful time with Steve.

i,ll be one of your mates and come and sort them out oj.

tonights carer is lovely and she is doing the next two nights too, she has helped me eat a terrys choc orange and made me a drink, steve is asllep hopefully for the night.

Awww for elliott and the girls

Steve is where he should be, OJ, his family surely know that deep down [half wits]

Bless you sweetheart, sweet dreams tonight

OJ, when my uncle was at home, his family restricted sisters visits to five minutes only because he got tired so quickly. Is that something you could try with the family from hell?

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OJ you probably know this song but it is so wonderful I had to share it with you. Chin up honey, one day at a time. Enjoy your wonderful family

Dear OJ
Never posted on this thread but just wanted to wish your family well. Hope you have a good night. look after yourself.
Don't let the bastards (Steve's family) grind you down

I anm so old that I can remember the original version by Fleetwood Mac!

Hope you have a good night, oj, and don't read this till the morning. I'm off to bed now - sleep tight

Lovely that Steve knows where he wants to be and told his sister so!!

Glad you've got some good carers.

Enjoy every precious minute - hope SO much that het gets to eat Elliot's cake with him.

Lots of love,

xxx

OJ just caught up with this.
I can't believe his family.
I'm glad you all enjoyed your fish and chip supper.
Happy that Steve tells his family he is where he wants to be.

You show amazing strength.

Hi OJ, you sound to have had a lovely day Lets hope that you have many more peaceful days, full of fish n chips and chocolate oranges. I wish someonw needed my help to eat a chocolate orange!

Wishing you another lovely day. Thinking of you. Lots of love xxx

Hope today is a good one my lovely with no extraneous members of the family putting the boot in. Thinking of you and sending you love XXXXX

Your carers sound lovely and oing what they should be and caring for the whole family.

OJ, as ever your family amaze me Love to all of you!

OJ so glad the carer is lovely , it always helps if you can share a love of chocolate
Well done him on telling his sis where to go
that he is weakening guess it's a day at a time but am sure Steve will try his damndest to be around for Elliots birthday to get his cake.
Take care OJ

Hope you're having a good day today OJ and that Steve's family are keeping their distance. People do go weird when things like this happen but that just don't seem to have any sense about what Steve might want.

Wishing you and your family some peaceful times.

God that 2 weeks comment really made me

I didn't realise until yesterday that Steve had cancer (Sorry. ) I had thought it was a brain tumour.

I am so sorry for you all. This is just too cruel.

I am glad your carers are lovely and spying looking out for you.

OJ, So glad you have a lovely carer with you (and one that will share chocolate oranges with you), it makes all the difference. Thank God she overheard what Steve really said about staying at home where he belongs. Hopefully that put a sock in their deluded rantings. Sorry, not meaning to be disrespectful but you so don't need the grief that Steve's family throw at you, especially with everything else else that's going on.

I really hope that Steve makes it to Elliot's birthday and beyond. I know you've said it would be devastating if he die close to one of the kid's birthdays. I'll pray this won't happen. xxx

Hoping, praying and wishing you all many happy days ahead with Steve x

Hi OJ - can I apply to come and be a carer please?? I'm sure I would fit right it... I could:
(a) be appropriately severe with Steve's family
(b) make you lots of lovely drinks and most importantly
(c) I am brill at sharing choccy oranges