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MISSING: One AF due xmas day. still in hiding

101 replies

Misdee · 07/01/2008 18:10

not pregnant.

about 8 tests.

all negative.

please please reassure me AF has just gone for xmas break and will its usual reappearence soon.

[sighs]

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NoIHaventChangedMyName · 07/01/2008 19:29

digital one was good IME - it must have just come my way instead. Tell you what - you can have it back next month. How's that for fair?!

Misdee · 07/01/2008 19:29

i havent been stressed, but xmas was very emotional, as it was dh xmas since transplant, and did have afew weepy sessions. i was fretting before xmas that it may all go wrong as it had done for many years and was so tied to the hospital before.

i feel all crampy and AF-y, not pregnant at all.

do you think it could just be because i was so 'emotional' over xmas?

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ladytophamhatt · 07/01/2008 19:30

my -ve result is playing on the Wii atm, he's meant to be resting because he's been sick all day but you know.

But the +ve result I had for ds4 was positive before I even wee'd on the stick...it seemed to smell it while it was still in my bladder and it shouted "You're PG, you stupid bint " at me so I don't think it is a boy thing....

MerlinsBeard · 07/01/2008 19:31

I once had a 56 day cycle for no reason.

could be one of those things

BUT

its you

you're so pregnant

Misdee · 07/01/2008 19:32

you're all wind up merchants.

lalalalala i cant hear you [fingers in ears]

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TheIceQueen · 07/01/2008 19:32

my mum never did test positive for her first pg, negatives all the way through!.....and he's 32 now (maybe it's a boy thing.......although saying that I've got 3 DS's and they all showed up bfp a few days before I was even due!)

MerlinsBeard · 07/01/2008 19:32

misdee, my AF with this PG i was convinced i was coming on any minute...wasn't until i was actually sick that i took a test.

fell AF-y for the first few weeks

Wallace · 07/01/2008 19:33

um you are crampy, af-y and emotional?

I hope it is just a blip, but remember my dream (dreamt you had another baby ages ago!)

me23 · 07/01/2008 19:34

my period has been 2 weeks late before, and recently it was 1 week late, maybe test again tomorrow morning?

Misdee · 07/01/2008 19:34

wallace, xmas was emotional for the reasons stated, ot out of control emotional lo..

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lubyluby · 07/01/2008 19:38

ah misdee, still no signs

i ahd the boy thing with my two ds's

with ds1 i actually felt kicks before i got a positive test!!! was 24 weeks when they scanned me, now that was a shock! pmsl!

same again with ds2 i knew i was pregnant as had that feelign and had been trying so kind of knew, but still no positive test until i could feel movements and was 18 weeks!

dd i knew straight away, felt sick but was never actaulyl sick and went off sex! positive test at three days before af due.

GreatAuntieWurly · 09/01/2008 12:34

any sign yet???

NAB3wishesfor2008 · 09/01/2008 12:40

I got told on here I was "so pregnant". They were wrong.

Wait a bit longer and do another test but act as if you are pg so you are protecting the baby, if there is one.

FluffyMummy123 · 09/01/2008 12:40

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Piffle · 09/01/2008 12:42

reckon there is something about misdee
I am also seeking my af
Am still bf and ds2 is 9 mths but have had 2 normal 29 day cycles and although we dd have sex without protection twas like the day after my af finished oh about 40 days ago now.
Negative tests
Dunno>>>>

dirtygertiefromnumber30 · 09/01/2008 12:45

i didnt have one for 6 months once (docs couldnt find anything wrong though)

They came back with avengance after that.

I was so busy fretting about not having one that I didnt have time to enjoy the break!

GreatAuntieWurly · 09/01/2008 12:47

i havent had one since last august when I went on mini-pill. Do get a little panicky every month, even tho i know in my mind I'm not, I still end up getting a test to be 100% sure

bootsmonkey · 09/01/2008 12:51

I had a 54 day cycle recently. Freaked me out, but then they settled back into a routine of sorts... I did a test even though I had a coil.... no reason for it at all - one of those things

Misdee · 09/01/2008 12:53

still nothing, test this morning was negative.

is it, a see a doctor situation though?

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Flllightattendant · 09/01/2008 13:02

It's difficult isn;'t it? You would be about 6 weeks now, non? Depending on ovulation...which can be mucked up by all sorts of things...

I don't know any other reasons you might not have one.

Oh. hate to suggest it but do people sometimes get neg tests with an EP?

I am sure it is very unlikely though pet

Misdee · 09/01/2008 13:03

if it was EP then surely iwould be in pain by now?

i am thinking its just because i was under stress for so long, that now my body is havign a rest in all respects. last month i was ill for 3 weeks, and very run down and low during that time, a simple cold floored me.

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Flllightattendant · 09/01/2008 13:07

Yes. That's right, you would probably be in a lot of pain.
From what you say about last month I would reckon it is just a late ovulation which was scuppered by your being ill and run down. This happens a lot, don't worry.

You could see the doc just to ask if there are any other reasons it might be, then they could do some simple tests etc. and put your mind at rest?

CarGirl · 09/01/2008 13:08

I'd leave it a few weeks rather tha put yourself through the hassle of a gp appt! If you start feeling unwell/have pains that is different thought.

Flllightattendant · 09/01/2008 13:09

Actually yes, GP is the last place I'd want to go at the moment, there are lots of ill people around

Misdee · 09/01/2008 13:10

thanks.

i am just so unsure of what i'm meant to do.

i guess test every week or so to make sure until AF arrives or get a + result.

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