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Fluid back in Dh's abdomen, this means the drug ttreatments have stopped working

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Blandmum · 02/10/2007 14:11

Dh has been in increasing pain. the last CT scan showed no-regrowth of the tumours but the pain has been increasing so the consultant sent him for an ultrasound.

there is fluid back in the abdomen, not a lot, but this is a strong indication that the drugs have stopped working. There are no other treatments available, other than something in clinical trials which might buy us a month.

The consultant has sent us away for a months holiday from the drugs and will review the case them. But in reality I feel that she is just doing this to break us in gently.

We knew it would happen at some point. Still so hard to deal with.

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Blandmum · 02/10/2007 16:05

Re the Mime artists, Look the man is ill enough as it is!

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Freckle · 02/10/2007 16:05

Oh mb, I am so sorry to hear this.

PandaG · 02/10/2007 16:05

so sorry to hear this MB.

ggglimpopo · 02/10/2007 16:06

Life is so unfair MB, wishing you much strength.

On a positive note, I do a great underwear sneer and am available at short notice; could arrange to bring frenchman and a couple of dozen oysters and a quart of white wine, should they be needed.

xxx

moonmother · 02/10/2007 16:10

So sorry that you,dh and family are going through this

I have amazing admiration for all your courage

BabiesEverywhere · 02/10/2007 16:31
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moodlumtheWOOOHOOHOOhoodlum · 02/10/2007 16:40

MB -I'm really sorry. Life is really shite sometimes. I don't know you, but I've seen your threads before and I just wanted to say sorry, really, although in the circumstances its probably not the most adequate or inspired word.

Twiglett · 02/10/2007 16:44

LOL @ "Re the Mime artists, Look the man is ill enough as it is!"

sorry but LOL

Twiglett · 02/10/2007 16:45
BecauseImWereWolfit · 02/10/2007 16:48

Crying and smiling at the same time!

So sorry.

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LadyVictoriaOfCake · 02/10/2007 16:56

oh sh*t MB I am so so soryy, and i am moaning about silly stuff.

so sorry to hear this.

Hulababy · 02/10/2007 17:03

Oh damn. I am sorry to read this.

Don't know what to say really...no words and all that. But I do hope you have some precious times and moments left together, and as a family.

Thinking of you all.

unknownrebelbang · 02/10/2007 17:06

So sorry to hear this.

45nanny · 02/10/2007 17:10

Followed your story for a while now . So sorry MB

3andnomore · 02/10/2007 17:18

(((mb))) so sorry to hear that.

RubyShivers · 02/10/2007 17:20

so sorry

coppertop · 02/10/2007 17:30

MB but also smiling at the image of your personal Paris at Home.

ledodgy · 02/10/2007 17:32

so sorry Mb.

beansprout · 02/10/2007 17:33

So sorry to hear this mb.

hunkermunker · 02/10/2007 17:39

I'm so sorry, MB Thinking of you loads.

princessmel · 02/10/2007 17:46

Sorry to hear this news mb . You sound like such an amazing person. You're whole family does.

Blossomhill · 02/10/2007 18:23

mb ~ I am so sorry for you and your family

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