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Fat belly? No. Ovarian Cancer Belly (part 3) still going!

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TwitterQueen1 · 25/07/2019 13:10

This is the story of my ovarian cancer discovery and treatment from March 2017 to now. I hope it proves informative / interesting / thoughtful ... and most of all, perhaps make someone think 'actually I need to go the doctor about this and not just assume I've got a pelvic floor / weight problem'.

I am not having treatment - I was on an early phase trial with olaparib and cedirinab, which was going well but the doctors discovered brain mets in May, and after targeted radiotherapy there's not much else they can do.

I'm recently home after 3 weeks in hospital with pneumonia and sepsis so I cannot promise any exciting tales (except falling over). I moan a lot about steroid-induced diabetes.

Happy to hear any terrible (or good) jokes, rants, raves, anecdotes. I was/am a woolly hugger but can't do anything right now.

Here is part 1

Here is part 2

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GhengisCalm · 15/08/2019 23:14

Ahhh, TQ, I'm glad you and your girls are being looked after. ThanksThanksThanks

peskisaurus · 16/08/2019 00:16

I've been lurking on your thread from the start. Your support of other women has been amazing during this shit time. I'm thinking of you, and your lovely daughters.

iVampire · 16/08/2019 00:24

Hi - wondering how things are, and hoping you are stable, comfortable and well drained.

Have you a date for your actual move?

glitterball

freddiemercury · 16/08/2019 00:44

Dearest TQ... thinking of you....lots. I so hope you're comfortable and you and your daughters are together and looking after each other. ...
Xx

SnowsInWater · 16/08/2019 04:55

Sending love and hugs to you and your daughters. I think of you often xx

mrsrhodgilbert · 16/08/2019 08:00

I keep popping in to see how you’re doing, your latest news is very bitter sweet. I hope you are comfortable and being well looked after and you and your daughters get to spend some peaceful time together now. As so many are saying you have been such a help to so many of us on your own thread and the other one, what a sad summer it’s been. Thank you for everything you have done and for taking the time x

iVampire · 16/08/2019 08:21

I’ve just been re-reading the first thread, and now remember why cashews ‘’’’’

And apologies for mucking up the brackets for the Glitterball

Bit chilly for the Lacie top, but about to go out for a trot so you don’t have to

SwedishEdith · 16/08/2019 18:17

I've been following your posts on this as well. We must have a daughter of about the same age. I'm thinking of you. Flowers

vintagechick43 · 16/08/2019 18:39

Thinking of you and your daughters TQ, have followed your thread from the start. You have been so courageous and an inspiration, I wish it could of been a better outcome for you all.
Sending you all much love.

Thrupennybrit · 16/08/2019 19:11

The Duchess of Kent Hospice is a wonderful place, I hope you are comfortable and comforted by being there. Love from a local xx

Toofaroutallmylife · 16/08/2019 19:29

Hi TQ - hope you are as comfortable as you can be - lots of love to you and the DDs. Thank you for all your support on the cancer support threads - you have been an amusing, distinctive and supportive voice on there ever since I joined earlier this year Flowers

TeslaGirls · 16/08/2019 19:36

Love and strength TQ you are an amazing support to many - probably many many more than who actually post - I hope you and your darling girls are now receiving some love and support back Flowers

KnottyAndPistey · 16/08/2019 19:37

TQ! We bloody love you woman. 😍 You are an extraordinary human in sparkly shoes Gin

Huge gentle hugs from me and Knots.

Love to you and those gorgeous girls too xxxxx

Startoftheyear2019 · 16/08/2019 19:50

ThanksThanksThanks

AnchorDownDeepBreath · 16/08/2019 19:58

Much love TQ. I lurked on your threads since the beginning and you've been such a big influence. I hope you're comfortable this evening Thanks

UnholyStramash · 16/08/2019 21:13

Dear TQ, I’ve followed your story throughout but posted intermittently and under various names. I’m sad you’ve had to move to the hospice but I hope they’ll help you feel more comfortable. You’ve had such a horrible time of it. I also hope your girls (and other loved ones) feel well supported at the hospice. Xx

MeanLaQueefer · 17/08/2019 01:12

Huge love to you and your girls TQ. You’re truly an amazing woman. I hope you know just how much a difference you’ve made to so many peoples lives by sharing your story with us. You’re an inspiration xxx

MadisonAvenue · 17/08/2019 01:18

My love and thoughts are with you and your girls TQ Flowers❤️

Aurignacian · 17/08/2019 01:20

Sending you much love xxx

DramaAlpaca · 17/08/2019 01:40

Much love TQ. I have followed your story from the start & you are amazing & an inspiration. Tonight I am eating cashews in your honour Flowers

MakeTeaNotWar · 17/08/2019 16:16

Sending love to you, you are in my thoughts

Jouska · 17/08/2019 16:20

Namechanger but thank you TQ you are one hell of a women who has helped many others when going through a horrendous time.

I hope you and your daughters are being surrounded with love and care.

Wombat22 · 17/08/2019 17:01

My lovely TQ. You have been such an inspiration to so many people, through your own threads and the lacies threads.
I hope you are pain free and with your girls.
Sending you much love Glitterball

BestIsWest · 17/08/2019 20:35

I have lurked since the very beginning. You are truly an inspiration. Much love 💗.

Insieme · 18/08/2019 00:30

Much love and hugs. ThanksThanksThanks

We interacted a bit on the Candy's Hugs thread (before and after my name change).

Can I just say I admire you so much, and the way you've dealt with this horrible disease? Much love to your family too .