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It's not summer yet, but we are on cancer support thread 69. Join us if you've got cancer or are having cancer-related tests.

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WhatWouldLeslieKnopeDo · 12/02/2019 21:58

Good evening lacies Glitterball and welcome to another thread. We filled the previous one rather quickly with dog stories Grin

Hello to any new posters. Feel free to join us if you've got any sort of cancer, or if you're waiting to find out if you have it. We are always happy to share our experience and hold hands, and even happier when we get to wave goodbye to people who have had the all clear :) (please do come back and let us know either way - sometimes people just disappear into the sunset, leaving us wondering whether they were OK or not!)

It's helpful if you can post a quick (re)introduction, even if you're a regular on the thread, to save people having to remember or to refer back to previous threads. There's no need to "catch up" - just join in whenever you want to.

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addlebrained · 23/03/2019 08:32

Thinking of you and your family Leslie.

And thank you TQ

toldmywrath · 23/03/2019 09:54

Another delurker.
Wishing peace and blessings.
Leslie is a marvellous example of humanity and this thread is a very positive place to be, despite the subject being discussed. Bloody cancer.
Thanks everyone and TQ for taking time to keep us posted.( I remember that you said a few weeks ago you would)
Flowers

purpleunicorns · 23/03/2019 11:08

Born that's brilliant news! I've just noticed your post inbetween all the lovely messages for Leslie. It's so nice to have some good news on here and I'm so pleased for you Thanks

So is that it for now? Or will you still need regular scans for a while? I'm very jealous of your bubble bath, I have a stoma and kidney nephrostomys so I'm not allowed baths anymore. Although it means I can empty my nephrostomy anywhere so I don't have to keep constantly trying to climb the stairs to have a wee Grin

I hope everyone is having a lovely weekend Brew

Tahitiitsamagicalplace · 23/03/2019 13:43

Brilliant news Born!!

TwitterQueen1 · 23/03/2019 16:15

Leslie sent me a brief message earlier, saying she was very tired but thinking of us all.

peapod66 · 23/03/2019 16:21

Lovely to have heard from Leslie TQ, thank you for passing on

peapod66 · 23/03/2019 16:22

She is very much in so many people's thoughts

Wombat22 · 23/03/2019 16:26

Thanks TQ
iVampire re the Glitterball Leslie considered it the trademark emoji of the lacies.

Borntobeamum · 23/03/2019 16:51

purple The colorectal nurse said no more treatment but they want to do a CT colonography in the next few weeks as a colonoscopy it not possible.
They will keep an eye on me for 5-6 years.
I’m also on the radar as I have Left Bundle BranchBlock and ask The Endoscopy showed I have Barretts Oesophagus and a Hiatus hernia.
Passing love to you all but especially for Leslie 💕

PapaJanePizza · 23/03/2019 17:13

Also delurking for Leslie, although love also to all the other lovely posters on this thread.

Leslie, you have made such a difference in so many lives.
Sending so much love to Leslie and her family.

LeonoraFlorence · 23/03/2019 17:31

Love to you, Leslie. You and your lovely family are in my thoughts.

ItsAliveItsElectric · 23/03/2019 19:24

Delurking here to say what an amazing, strong, courageous, inspiring woman Leslie is. I wish her so much love and peace. I've never listened to anyone so wise beyond their years as this remarkable lady. She has made a huge difference to my life and every single person on this site, I read it daily but have never posted until now.

Leslie, I think of you every day and I send you so much love Flowers

FizzyGreenWater · 23/03/2019 19:50

I am an occasional lurker here, since a few years ago when a good friend was going through cancer treatment. I never posted but found these threads so helpful. There were times when I couldn't think of much else but cancer and what was happening with my friend, but there is a limit to how much you can talk about it without sounding as if you are making it 'all about you', and lurking here helped with that as well as with how to give the right kind of support where I could. Sadly my friend passed away a couple of years ago. I still lurk, especially when they are on my mind.

I remember you Leslie, under an earlier name. I'm so sorry to hear how things have progressed and I hope you are still reading and wish you all the love and peace in the world. You are such a special person, you've touched probably thousands of people you don't even know about. You're amazing and have made such an incredible difference to so many. Take care. xxxxxx

Rosiesmummy17 · 23/03/2019 20:24

Kind of a lurker, kind of not.. Read the days posts in bed every night and post when I get the chance but anyway, sending you loads of love Leslie Flowers

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Toofaroutallmylife · 23/03/2019 23:02

Hey @Rosiesmummy17 - good to hear from you. How are you doing? X

cleanasawhistle · 23/03/2019 23:30

You are always in my thoughts Leslie xx

Sending love to all x

shiningstar2 · 24/03/2019 00:34

Delurking to voice my appreciation of all that Lesley has done for so many people posting here. A truly remarkable lady who has given so much support to so many.

freddiemercury · 24/03/2019 05:27

Dearest Leslie.... I'm here ... holding your hand. Just like you held mine, without even realising, as you were so tactful, gentle, knowledgable and all round reassuring whenever I posted.... you are always the one that lends wise counsel....whatever you're going thru.
I thank you from the bottom of my heart and send you gentle hugs....
Love to all ....Mel xx

fedupntired · 24/03/2019 07:10

Leslie, I have been thinking of you daily. You have been a tower of support over the last year to me and many many others.
Thank you xxxxxxx

iVampire · 24/03/2019 07:20

I’m finding it moving to see the delurkers, and also the return of those who posted more frequently of yore (when I first came to this thread)

Blue skies here this morning, and I’m off to a local National Trust place for one of their (free) trail running events.

Hope everyone has a good day today - whatever ‘good’ means for them right now

mrsrhodgilbert · 24/03/2019 08:45

Leslie, you’ve been such a comfort to so many here and made this horrible disease a little less frightening. Thank you so much for all your time and care x

balkanscot · 24/03/2019 10:05

Another long-lost lurker here. Diagnosed with BC in Dec. 2016 (HR+/HER -), found out I was BRCA2 +, lumpectomy, then preventative double mastectomy with DIEP reconstruction in Sept. 2017, then preventative oophorectomy in March 2018, currently in the throes of all the menopausal effects you could think of but thankfully alive & well. I am tempted to say “for now” as the cancer worry beast never really sleeps.

Leslie, utmost respect and a billion thank yous for keeping this thread going, sharing your experience & supporting us all. 😘

TwitterQueen1 · 24/03/2019 10:39

Hello everyone

We have started a new Cancer Support thread here.

It's so lovely to see and read all the beautiful posts in support of Leslie but she did tell me some time ago that she didn't want the thread to get clogged up with these, and maybe get in the way of those needing support. So we've started a new thread in the traditional style, which is just for those who have cancer or who are having tests for cancer. Lurkers and 'old' posters are welcome to continue posting here.

Idonotlikeyoudonaldtrump · 24/03/2019 10:58

How very Leslie to be so considerate of others. What a good idea. So many of you fighting battles on this thread, one of whom is my good friend irl. Too many to name, all sounding lovely and undeserving of the shit that has come your way xx purple, I am thinking of you especially as well as my friend who I won’t out but knows who she is x