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OK ladies, we all need to channel that famous MN positive thought power....Dejags 4 week old little girl is seriously ill in hospital and she need us......

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LadyTophamHatt · 02/06/2007 06:40

I recieved this email this morning.....

All,

Thanks for your best wishes on my other thread.

Carys was admitted on Thursday morning to the our local Paediatric unit with an unknown viral infection. She was tested and on Thursday evening, we got the bad news that she is RSV Positive. We were told that it was going to a rocky road as this virus is very dangerous for newborns and prems.

Thursday night was ok. She held her own without support. Unfortunately on Friday morning she started deteriorating (as expected) and was placed in a full High Dependency Unit. She was hooked up to every monitor known to man, a drip and a zillion wires and placed in a resuscitair. Yesterday was rocky - her sats were swaying wildly and every slight bit of stress was sending her Heart Rate, Respiration and SATS haywire. Just after lunch DH and I decided to insist on a transfer for her to a Neonatal ICU - unfortunately because of the virus (which is very contagious), we couldn't find a bed anywhere in Cape Town in a PICU/NICU in an isolation ward. It was decided to transfer her to the adult ICU in our local hospital which is where she remains now.

My darling girl is fighting for her life. She is stable but critical. Please mumsnetters, please pray and send all of your best thoughts (I truly believe in being positive) to us.

My life is upside down, my baby is so sick and I am sitting her in the family room in the middle of the night almost too scared to go into the Unit for fear of bad news.

God help us.

I'll try to keep you all updated when I can.

Love dejags
xxxxxxxxxxxx

Dejags, my heart was in my mouth when I read this, I had no idea until I opened the emial. I hope with ever single fibre in my body that Carys makes a quick recovery and is able to come home again soon to be with her gorgeous big brother and adoring mum and dad.

I'll be thinking of you all.

Emma.
xxxxx

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anneme · 12/06/2007 14:58

DEjags - only just seen this thread. You poor thing, what an awful worrying time for you. I'm so glad that things are looking up now even if it will be a slow journey.
lots of love and prayers from anneme

Ettenna · 12/06/2007 15:14

very best wishes to all your family at this difficult time xx

dejags · 12/06/2007 19:14

13 days later...

we are still here ....

the good news is, is that Carys has recovered quite well from the RSV. She came off oxygen day before yesterday and has managed well on her own since then.

In the interim, we have had a scare related to her heart. Her paed, told us on Sat that she may have a congenital heart defect. We were squeezed in to see the top Paed Cardiologist in Cape Town yesterday - after two agonising days we were given the all clear.

We were expecting to go home today but she has now picked up Rotavirus .

So hopefully we'll be home sometime before the end of the week.

To each and every single one of you who posted on this thread - THANK YOU!! You helped me through the loneliest and most frigthtening days of my life.

Thanks to LTH for starting this thread, email me when you are back online please.

Love
dejags

LilRedWobblyGut · 12/06/2007 19:34

Dejags - I'm glad you get to go home soon, but poor Carys and poor poor you!

Take care. xxx

largeginandtonic · 13/06/2007 12:01

So glad she is on the mend Dejags, poor you having to contend with all this. Give Carys a virtual hug form me, i really hope you are home by the weekend.

Go straight to bed with her and snuggle, late babymooning will help both of you. Lots of love to you all xxxxxx

lulumama · 13/06/2007 12:02

Do hope Carys keeps on improving, getting stronger and is soon back to 100 % , must have been very frightening for you all xxx

MrsJetson · 13/06/2007 12:20

Dejags, I have only just seen this.

Thinking of you all and hoping that Carys will be reunited at home with the rest of her family very soon. xx

dejags · 13/06/2007 15:58

We are home

It's bedlam, so I'll update more later in the week.

love
dejags
xx

Cammelia · 13/06/2007 15:59

Thank goodness dejags, hope you are all coping.

suedonim · 13/06/2007 16:49

What a relief for you to be home again. Enjoy!

RTKangaMummy · 13/06/2007 17:29

DEFFO BRILL NEWS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

fryalot · 13/06/2007 17:30

deffo deffo brill

ComeOVeneer · 13/06/2007 17:42

Just seen this. Am thrilled you are all home and well. Try and catch up on some well deserved rest and continue to enjoy your lovely little girl (and your ds's). xxx

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oooggs · 13/06/2007 17:47

glad you are home - hope all is well

nannyogg · 13/06/2007 17:48

YAY!!!!!!!

BreeVanDerCamp · 13/06/2007 17:48
Grin
BrothelSprouts · 13/06/2007 17:48

Great news!

hazygirl · 13/06/2007 17:55

fantastic news i am soo pleased.

Carmenere · 13/06/2007 17:56

Am delighted

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beansprout · 13/06/2007 18:50

Oh that's fab

Gingerbear · 13/06/2007 18:52

You must be so relieved! Brilliant news.

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flamingtoaster · 13/06/2007 19:03

What absolutely great news that you are going home - it's the news we have all been waiting to hear!