My first known gallbladder attacks were about 3-4 years ago and about 2 years ago I sorted the ultrasound and they found stones. I left it as long as I could and it was fairly well controlled until March/ April this year. It was first just spike attacks of 15-60 minutes duration that would be either 1 hour after a meal or overnight/ early morning. Next day I would be tired but then more or less OK by 2 days later. By April/ May this year it was more or less everpresent discomfort and it was really getting exhausting. I am living in Austria so I got them done here, with the previous ultrasound proofs it was arranged pretty quickly- I was in hospital from Thursday 29 June to the Sunday evening 2 July.
Moosmama, Post Op for me has gone very well. I had the stitches out last Friday and it's healed up mostly (3 cuts; 1cm drain on the right side of stomach, horizontal 4 cm one directly under breasbone and a 2cm one just under belly button). I am still very tired too, in bed 8-9pm each night and if I sit too long my stomach muscles cramp a bit. I have tried a few more adventurous meals- a curry didn't cause and problems and a greasy lasagne only gave me a quick diarrhoea but with none of the usual pains. I think by next week I'll be back to scootering my DD to daycare. I have a docs note for 2 weeks but I have an office job/ home office so have done a bit each day- not pushing to get back to it but probably be fine from next Monday.
Babybell- I didn't have this during pregnancy so can't help with that. The attacks for me varied in how they presented. Some would be in the hour straight after a meal (normally obvious link to cheese/ eggs/ butter) or could be overnight (same food types, or eating too late, or eating too much of even plain things). A short daytime attack was 15 -60 minutes of spiky pain, sweats, not normally sick- bearable with painkillers. A full attack was 4-6 hours of sweats, cramps, bloating, vomit, diarrhoea , stabbing pains around liver. Not possible to lie down, would either have to walk around (best but tiring) or prop myself in a chair). Those were really very painful and one time I only noticed in the morning that I'd poured boiling water all down my arm making a hot water bottle up.
At first the attacks wouldn't hang around, they were severe but went away quickly, many weeks between them. In the later stages I was very tired all the time and it was just sort of grumbling away in the background- not spiky pain like the serious attacks but just grinding away.
I was eating a lot of toast, plain spaghetti, muesli bars, plain biscuits and drinking a lot of tea.