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*Tamoxigang Christmas Party* - 45

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Tiny100 · 28/11/2013 10:58

Morning All!

We're nearly in December, so let's get the festivities started.

[adds mince pies to the trolley]

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Tiny100 · 08/01/2014 21:02

It is amazing what children pick up on Goodness, so it is a very good idea to tell the school. Hope they were supportive.

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GoodnessKnows · 08/01/2014 22:05

They really were and I was able to express the unknown time frames, findings and recovery times, etc. I asked them to look out for him particularly well - he's what they call 'eccentric' and 'a real character' and so this chat will hopefully help ;)

pastoral care

trice · 08/01/2014 23:13

Only the second day back at school and a child projectile vomited over dd's whole class in the story corner. There is going to be an epidemic of noro isn't there? I expect Dd will be up in the night. Aghghhhh!

Good luck all who are about to get taxed, I hope you escape the side effects.

trice · 08/01/2014 23:13

Only the second day back at school and a child projectile vomited over dd's whole class in the story corner. There is going to be an epidemic of noro isn't there? I expect Dd will be up in the night. Aghghhhh!

Good luck all who are about to get taxed, I hope you escape the side effects.

kitkat1967 · 08/01/2014 23:26

Oh trice - that is gross - did yours get splattered?

malteserzz · 09/01/2014 07:55

Tiny I didn't use the cold mittens and my nails are ok, they seem thicker and have ridges across them but with polish on they're fine

Trice yuk ! Hope the parent wasn't one of those who thinks the 48 hour rule doesn't apply to them !

Gigondas · 09/01/2014 08:19

Trice - yuck (

Gigondas · 09/01/2014 08:24

Bet dd loved that tho. My dd still goes on about when her friend was sick on the school mat months later). You are right its Noro season tho.

Goodness-glad you managed to ride out school run and speak to head. Hopefully it won't be as bad as you fear (am sure it won't). I am very lazy as hardly ever do school run as can't be arsed even when I feel ok but school know and rung/write in book. Also I hope get news on op date soon as you deserve it after all the waiting.

I got funny nail ridges last time malt( like fault lines) but no issues on tax so far malt.

Wee barra-what do you think of archers ATM?

Marshy · 09/01/2014 08:56

Morning all,
Interesting re mirena. Maybe it's because I had DCIS? All my hcps know, but I will check it out at my next appt.

Off to work in a bit. Planning on keeping a low profile today and leaving on time, not half an hour late like I did on Tuesday.

Have a good day everyone

kitkat1967 · 09/01/2014 14:29

Marshy - I don't know - I'd have thought if your DCIS was hormone positive the same would apply, but maybe not. Presumably you don't have an onc though (they seem to be the ones keen on getting mirenas removed!!)?

Went back to bed as usual once the kids had left for school and accidently had a sneaky few hours extra sleep - feel very good for it though.

It's a lovely day here - I have been out on a few errands and apart from the on-going nausea am feeling well. Plus I noticed last night that my eyelashes are growing - I'm not up to Malts mascara wearing standard just yet but it won't be long. Smile

How it's going well for all of you having chemo this week (mainly Tax I think).

Gigondas · 09/01/2014 15:23

Feeling yuck so back in bed- knackered despite lie in and feeling flu like symptoms tho temperature ok. Not got the energy to leave the house or do much so feel pathetic Sad.

kitkat1967 · 09/01/2014 15:54

sorry you're not well Gigs - is that chemo SEs or another bug that you have picked up? Hope you're being well looked after.

malteserzz · 09/01/2014 15:55

Gigs you're not pathetic you just need to rest. Find something trashy to watch, hope you feel better soon

Kitkat good news about the eyelashes, mine came quite quickly once they started. I'm using rapid labs at night and mascara with lengthening serum in the day, probably doing nothing but can't do any harm !

malteserzz · 09/01/2014 15:57

Rapid lash ! Not labs

weebarra · 09/01/2014 17:03

gigs, sorry you're not feeling great, hope you feel better soon.
All very dramatic round Ambridge way at the moment eh? Don't like the Ed, George and the puppy storyline and can see Hellin posting on the Relationships board any minute...

GoodnessKnows · 09/01/2014 18:11

Shitty fuck. Fuck shitty. Can't think of any other way to express how frustrated, angry and sad I feel. No results from the most recent MRI and consultant now away until 22/1/14. Bloody marvelous. No op date either. Shitty shit. Either everything is fine (I feel ok physically - except achey at night ) or ... it's not n I need an op n need it in the diary. Grrrrrrr
I've been hanging around waiting for four weeks now. Knowing I need an op but not what it is and when it will be. Told it needed to happen within a month n now not even a date in the diary.

reallyreallyworried · 09/01/2014 19:07

Hi all

gigs sorry to hear you aren't feeling well. Hope you've had a nice rest.

goodness that is so frustrating, but there isn't much you can do. Unless you choose to go with another surgeon. You might find you are put as one of the first op's once he is back from his hol's. But until then, assuming you are feeling physically okay, I would TRY to put it to the back of your mind and treat yourself with some nice days out for a bit. Spend some extra time with your son, do things that you might struggle with for a bit after surgery! (((((((big hug)))))) xx

I have finished for the week! Smile made it through my 46hr week, including school and nursery runs today, and I feel pretty good Smile

I have been in bed by 9.30 each night, but other than that I am doing okay, and I am quite proud of myself. Just hoping that I can continue to cope while on Tax! First dose is next Friday!!!!

Right I think I need a nice bath (it's not quite the same with one arm hanging out the side) then some tv and bed!! Oh the exciting life I lead Grin

Hope you all have a lovely evening. Xxxx

kitkat1967 · 09/01/2014 19:55

Well done really - I continue to be amazed how well you are managing with your job. Make sure you enjoy a good rest over the weekend.

Marshy · 09/01/2014 19:59

kitkat you are right re the DCIS and the lack of an onc. I have told everyone about the mirena and remember BCN dismissing it as unimportant but will def check at my next appt.

My week ends here also worried and i am pleased, but good to have the first bit done. Did I leave on time? No....

Well into my Friday wine now except it's Thursday!

gigs and goodness hugs for you

weebarra · 09/01/2014 20:15

goodness - that is seriously bad, but I have no idea what you can do about it.
really - I am truly in awe of you being able to keep doing your job! I have three little uns but am not always able to do the school run - or anything more than employ Auntie Cbeebies!

Tiny100 · 09/01/2014 20:31

Wee - I have been using Cbeebies alot too - don't tell anyone on the Parenting Board! Blush

Marshy & Really - Enjoy your extra long weekend, sounds like you both have earned it.

KitKat - Well done on the eye lash growing front.

Oh no Goodness, is your other Surgeon able to give you the results at all?

Hope you start feeling a bit better soon Gigs. Sounds silly, but a holiday can take it out of you, as much as it can relax you and let's face it going away with children, whilst lovely, is never relaxing.

Evening to Malt and everyone else. Am off to get Taxed tomorrow morning.

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GoodnessKnows · 09/01/2014 20:46

Really, I hope that you get some rest this weekend. I'm glad that you are managing to work so much and still feel ok. Try not to push yourself too hard.
Thanks for your hugs and understanding, everyone. I'm going to call the other surgeon's secretary tomorrow (they'll be operating together, apparently). Hopefully, he will try to get the results. Who knows! I don't know which way is up at the moment.
I'm going to take the good advice and go to enjoy the next however long I've got without surgery, trying to put it to the back of my mind. I'll try, anyway Wink

Tiny100 · 09/01/2014 20:54

Easier said than done Goodness, I know I was a wreck and couldn't think of anything else before I got my dx. Just think, if you can get through this, you can get through anything. Smile

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malteserzz · 09/01/2014 21:17

Tiny good luck with the tax you'll be fine are you hyper on the steroids yet Grin
Nothing wrong with a bit of cbeebies it's educational ! Unlike x box which ds loves now I don't think that's very educational lol
Goodness they are making you wait Hmm I hope not too long now

malteserzz · 09/01/2014 21:30

Meant to say really I agree you are doing well to be still working Smile hope you are asleep by now !

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