Wow - Kitkat, you have had a lot to get your head round in a very short time! - their conclusions sound like good news to me, and obviously once they have removed stuff and analysed it thoroughly they will know whether more chemo is necessary.
Actually I think its quite good that your op is coming up fairly soon - it means you will be busy arranging things and getting ready and won;t have to much time to get anxious
I was only in overnight with my MX (although of course you would be able to stay longer if you wanted to, - I asked to come out swiftly because it was DD's school prom and I desperately wanted to see her in her prom frock all dressed up) You'll probably come home with drains in, so movement is a bit restricted until they come out (district nurse will visit daily if it is still the same system as when I had mine).
Anyway - loads of luck and love - we'll all be thinking of you
jchoc - lots of good vibes for your mammo xx
Malt - I second Gig's suggestion - plan something to look forward to when you feel better, little things for during chemo, - nice trips, a DVd you;ve always wanted to watch, a good book to curl up with, --- and something a bit more wow! for when you;ve finished treatment
Gigs - hope you are feeling Ok today, and not too sore. Thanks for your kind words about my pain it meant a lot because people don;t actually understand, partly because its invisible and partly because unless you;ve had it you don;t know what it feels like. It has been really getting me down this week - I having a bad patch of pain, and next week I have a v. busy week doing an art exhibition - so three days of full on interacting with general public and small talk, and wearing a sunny expression - not the best when your head is hurting a lot!
las night I had a meeting to go to, - a friend was giving me a lift home, and I'd told her my head was v.sore, but after the meeting finished she buggered about having long conversations with people and faffing around doing things and I was thinking 'I just want to go home' - and of course it wasn't deliberate, she just doesn't get it, - and why should she really? - DH doesn't get it and he lives with me!
Oops sorry - bit of a moan there, - but if I do it on here, I don't do it in RL, - feel free to ignore me
Waving to all, - enjoy your swim MAS. - Abide with me is a real tear jerker, - we had I Vow to Thee my Country at Dad's funeral - that's pretty emotional too!