Remission..........I feel what is happening now when I tell people the scan is clear again and its a period of remission they think its all over, he is cured. At diagnosis 5 years ago he was stage iv, treatable, not curable. The longest period of remission we have had before this one in 9 months, then BANG, it had spread to his lungs. In our case I feel we are now back 75% to living our life again as it was pre cancer, and I think that is because time does that. After 5 years you learn to live with it, it is now another part of our lives, like it or not. The kids now never get panicky when its ct time like they used to, they have coped very well. Last July after being given another all clear the onc decided that she would now scan 6 monthly with 3 monthly blood tests, instead of 3 month scans...........that scared me......6 months alot might happen. I think when you have regular scans, when you are on chemo etc you feel you are doing something to rid the beast, when nothing is happening you are not in control. The one thing I do feel now is that cancer is an illness like many others not the death sentence that scares the hell out of you when you hear those awful words, "its cancer". Research is the key, I donate to Cancer Research and am amazed with their updates the progress they are making, one day there will be a cure, for all.