thanks all - its annoying but as Ned says, at least I know what happens now. DD made some rather nice chocolate cookies while I was out, so I've cheered up 
I had my hair cut after the test - very short, and booked to have it coloured in a few weeks (have never had my hair coloured before, but it's getting very grey)- can't decide what colour to go for though.
gracie - hope you hear from the onc. soon and he sorts out what is going on. I hope he gives awful doctor a rocket for the way he spoke to you.
Gig - glad you are feeling a bit better today, and have been able to eat and sleep.
Sometimes - your DD doesn't beat around the bush does she?
Loads of good vibes for your op. - do you know how long you are likely to be in hospital?
topsy - how annoying about the infection, - sounds horrible, I hope they get it sorted out soon.
Smee - good news about your friends sister, hope she continues to make good progress.
Ned - I like the look of little Ned's toy - I could have good fun with that 
love to MAS, 1Step, amber, baskets and everyone else xx