Hiya, thanks for the welcome
This dieting stuff's not so bad is it
What do I usually eat? OK, here goes ...
Breakfast - porridge with DS (if time)
Snack - chocolate brownie or pan-au-chocolate & coffee (2 sugars)
Lunch - soup and cheese sandwich or humous wrap. Coffee (2 sugars)
Break - coffee (2 sugars) or tea (no sugar) with biscuits
If late at uni - crisps & chocolate bar
Dinner - small dinner with DS (veg sausage, mash & cheese perhaps)
Late dinner (usually after 9) - adult dinner with DP (something vegetarian and homemade but probably very rich and cheese-based) often with 2 or 3 real ales or glaseses of wine
Snacks - a bit of cheese pretty much every time I walk past the fridge.
Sometimes - late snack (e.g. cheese on toast).
Ha! And I wonder why I'm so fat?! 
Why am I overeating so much?! Well pre-DCs, I used to have a pretty active life and was out a lot. I'd often miss meals and I rarely snacked. I hardly ate chocolate. However when I did eat I'd eat big meals to make up for it.
Now I'm a mum and studying I'm in all the time. (Or at uni near their lovely brownies!) So I never miss meals these days, but I haven't adjusted the potion size! Also I just don't seem to get full like other people, I really can just carry on!
Oh and also I'm veggie and have come to rely slightly too much on cheese as my main source of protein.
My plan is if I just cut out all the cheese, chocolate and alcohol, and control the portion sizes then it should drop off, no?
Also I plan to keep snacking while at home, (I reckon substitution is more realistic than denial, and it helps me study!) but I should snack on healthy stuff (like carrots) not lumps of cheese!
I'd like to eat earlier in the evening too, but not sure how I can make that work with our schedule.