very very very embarassing , womans troubles down below help ??

[muma3]

this is extremely personal but need to ask if there is anyone else out there who has experiened it?
have just had dd3 and feel like my inside are coming out ?? i have scar tissue down below and everything is very swollen , im scared. i inserted a tampon today and thought that i could feel my cervix i have never experienced this before and i nearly fainted. think my uterus is dropping out of me . darent get intimate with partner because im scared what he will see down there it is horrible and ugly and also can i get help with surgery or something ?
any health professionals out there please help because i darent go to my docs ????
how embarassing

Nothing has arrived yet but it might take a little while as it goes through MNHQ first

Will send you an email when it arrives

got to see the nurse tmw and im soooooooooo scared. i just cant bear the emarassment of it all . having a ring fitted omg sonds like im going to get butchered lol
i know that she used to be a midwife and has probably seen so many fannies and fitted so many rings in worse fanny then mine ( 90year olds and all that ) but the thought is still making my stomach churn.i thought that my dd1 had the dentist tmw and that was going to be my way out but i phoned and checked and it isnt til 13th dec so i have to go tmw.the worst thing is i really want to go aswell just to get the professional opion i have been craving but i dont want to have to expose myself.

pyshic doctor out there?????????????????

Muma3 the rings don't often come out. they can make you much more comfortable so I'm told

Hope it all goes well for you.

And from someone who sees a lot of privates in a day, I can assure you that I don't really 'see' any of them, IYSWIM. They are just part of the job, and I would no more flinch at someone's fanny than at someone's ear

colditz- what do you do for a living ? i hate having to have any thing done down there iykwim - smears etc i think im delevoping a phobia
Any tips on how to make me feel more at ease ?
fgs i have had 3 children and i still get panicky

Muma3 the nurse will have seen it all before, try and relax, easier said thanb done I know. I also hate personal examination, but during my last smear, I realised onceo n the table that I hadn't waxed my legs, and found myself apologising to the nurse for it!!! The nurse laughed and told me an anecdote aboutt he time she was on a course and had to get on a table as part of some sort of scenario, she said she'd had to flash her hairy legs to a whole class of people....

I know the above has nothing to do with anything, but wanted to make you feel a little better if possible. Good luck with tomorrow.

Muma3, am just a care assistant, but see a lot of people's bits.

thanks fuzzywuzzy haha xx
still pooing myself

good news wasnt as bad as i thought - well the results werent but the examination was i had a panick attack, but the nurse said she thinks everything looks fine and YES i think i got carried away with the thought of it being worse case senario . anyway- i have to go and see a a physiotheripist and do some exercises to tighten everything up but i should be back to normal within a year. PLEASE DONT SAY I TOLD YOU SO - i feel so silly but as my dp says at least i got things checked out and now i know but it was a complete nightmare. they arent going to refer me now to the gyneocologist (sp?). i have a lision which i what i cold feel and she said that it i just caused by having such a quick labour and delivery.
i feel soooooo stupid and now im so embarrased to tell you all that everything is fine.
to all who do have this problem i am extremely sorry for going on like an idiot and hope that you all get it sorted as soon as poss.
good luck to you all and once again i know im stupid.

nice to know i have a normal looking fanny and it all looks healthy and yes i am very lucky that it isnt something more serious .

thankyou to all for your support aswell honest i dont know what i would of done without it, i do lol
i would of not gone and been thinking the worst for a very long time and got myself i more of a state if thats possible???????????
all over now and there's the light at the end of this tunnel so ill leave it to you guys who may be worried for a REAL reason xx

Mama 3,

I am absolutely DELIGHTED for you that everything is OK and that you will be able to have a quick and non-surgical solution. I am so glad you plucked up the courage to see someone about this and that it has not turned out to be the crisis you envisaged. I hope that this great news has made you feel much much happier.

Where your health is concerned and when you experience something abnormal it is human nature to automatically think of the worst case scenario so there is no need to feel embarrassed that it is all OK - everyone will be delighted for you, especially as you are so young! Personally, I am done with having children so, although it is a nuisance, I was not facing the same concerns as you so maybe am able to take a more pragmatic view.

Good luck with the physiotharapy - I hope everything sorts itself out really quickly.

is'nt it rubbish beingh a woman sometimes?........I had to have vaginal restructuring after butchered delivery of ds1 - my nether regions no longer a pretty sight and pain worse than childbirth. Is ok now but I do my pelvic floor excercises.......surgery seriously sucks so don;t leave anything but ask for immediate gynae appt - they have obviously seen it all befor eand then some so why should we care or feel strange about it........bet blokes would love the chance to go and talk about their bits incessantly!
designer fanny definitely a myth - it really really hurts having it chopped about so don't do it for the hell of it!