She ain't heavy.. she's my Lighter sister... tra la la la laaaa!

[Mittz]

Well, I'm just here for the banter and a chance to talk bollox, and we also do weight loss, WATER drinking (I'm the 'ficcial water monitor, and I have a badge), and heart to hearts..

I am the Mittz(not Mitts), I need to lose about 10lb, but get my head straight in the process..

I am sure one of my lovely companions will be along shortly......

I have read nothing

Have got lasagne for tea. DP just got back from drs with evil Mole. Apparently the weaning is making her reflux worse hence the constant (and I mean constant) screaming and throwing up. Have to put the gaviscon in the food now then repeat back.

Nurse did say that shes not surprised Mole isnt sitting up yet, she said it may have something to do with her weight

off to stuff face with said lasgne and catch up (you lot better have been interesting)

What's your plan ID? Take me with you.. anywhere pleeeaassseee!!

Hey Fluffy xx

Does anyone want a pre teener with an attitude and excuse for everything? It might seriously be a good thing that he had to go to his Dads' tonight. [frown] Buggered off out of the village without telling me and conveniently didn't answer his phone all afternoon and he knew I had counselling and he had to be back. When he did answer his phone he lied as to where he was but I was standing where he said he was supposed to be.

God I needed counselling tonight. He wants £30 to go away with friends for the weekend so I would have thought being good would have been high on his list of ways to get cash out of Mother.

What? Do you mean like you and me and that memorable night with that well known DJ ID?

Or the paternity test?

Oh, or that substance that was confiscated from MN HQ? And THOSE photos! I mean HOW BIG!?!

Mittz - Sorry DS is giving you stress. Lying to mother is certainly not a way to get the green stuff out of her. Does he not know that?

Fluff - how are you? What do you mean Mole's weight? Christ, they sit up at different rates anyway....... Why is there still such a 'tick' list.

Double - Do Freecycle take cats????

Ahhh.. the beach. My soul needs a beach and an ocean, but Derbyshire also.

Excuse me.

BloodyBuggeryWankingCrapArseShittyBollox. I just want to go with the flow but somebody keeps changing the direction of the flow and it scrambles me head.

SAF - hmm, not sure yet!!! She wolfed her dinner down and then said, 'right, I'm off out, be back at 8.30 for a shower. Bye mum, love you.'

Ah, thinks me, bless her. Go into the lounge that has just been cleaned by my nice lady and bam. There it is. All her dinner pots etc, cup, ketchup bottle........

They are now on her bed. Waiting to be moved.

Mittz - Aww. Wish I could help unscramble you.

And.......forgot to say, I am a booze free zone. And plan to just have a little celebration tonight. Nowhere near as much as normal.

That's really really brilliant Mouse. You deserve to be very pleased with yourself.

Have just been to counselling and counsellor says it is all part of the process and I have to go through it to rebuild 'me' but it is scary and I feel naked. And I handle bad feelings badly. So I am stressed up to the eyeballs, making stupid mistakes as a result which in turn makes life harder and I am cracking slowly, so DS flexing his teenage muscles is about as helpful as trying to empty a puddle with a caulindar.(sp?)

Sparks flew today. Rarely happens but they did.

I think I am going to have to have a piercing soon.

yo miitz

double - that was shit, it is not cutting it. i need more jk type crap - i dont know, like maybe you find out that one of your dc shares a dad with one of mouse's? or mine? or that my dad is actually your ex? or... i think i need to get out more.

mouse - by 'weight' they mean she's fat as fuck

am forcing dd to dance to dogs d'amour and bon jovi, tis most entertaining.

waving rather madly at everyone else, while oping noone notices I haven't actually read any posts at all, apart from the last ten

did see Bitter's comment re butlins - fantastic.

SAF - Why do I not know what course you are doing? AnD why are there Daily Mail readers on it??????

Fluffs - I say she's more chubby, babies are chubby. And she'll sit up when she is a) able too use her core stability and b) in her own time.

Double - I did. The dirty dinner pots she used are on her bed and I won't be moving them.

Mittz - I know what you mean by the naked feeling. I feel exposed now I have admitted my weakness. All I need to do is unravel the reasons why. There are many possibilities, but which one is the primary source, who knows.

Right, take-away is here, champers poured (that's over an hour later for a first drink than last night) and I'm starved.

Be back later.

Be good! And if you can't be good, FFS, make it count!!!!!

Hello all
Mittz is there owt we can do to help?

things busy here as i think i may be self employed from Mon. I don't even have a laptop FFS . Wing it, wing it, wing it is the new mantra

Happy Anni Mouse - Great flower choice - i have 7 stems of cala lilies for my bouquet, but the very deep purple ones. Bridesmaids had white and they are lovely . enjoy your small celebratory tipple tonight

SAF, good on you girl for getting out and about. Keep wading through the difficulties and nervousness and it WILL become easier

Hey Fluffy - poor mole and poor you guys on the reflux. Constant vomiting must be so draining

Mitts, Your posts are so descriptive - i can so see you on the floor thrashing away. Makes me smile in a way. Not at you in any sense but that i can almost feel and see you in the room (Disclaimer: apologies if that makes no sense AT all )

Alice - i was going to go for a VBAC and chickened out. Mainly because my first CS was so calm and enjoyable (weird i know) that i thought why change to the unknown. Whatever happens, i'm sure all will go well

LOLOL at Bitter

ID. Feel free to FB me anytime I love to hear your thoughts.

Iggi, I don't know. Truly. Keeping me afloat sometimes is priceless. I think the breakdown of my marriage slowly eroded the defences I had against stuff that had happened and now it has all backlogged. I knew it would be hard but maybe not this hard.

When I was 6 a lad at school didn't like me for no good reason and he used to take me behind the school and punch me in the stomach, and tell me not to tell anyone, until I was screaming in my nightmares and couldn't keep the secret any more, and the pain for that little girl wrecks me. There is so much stuff. I don't know why except having my own DC's has made what happened real. Apparently I have to 'exorcise' those kind of memories for the process to really work but it is impeding everyday life sometimes and it is hard to keep going through with it.

I worry so much about being 'down' on the thread, even though I wouldn't think anything if it was anyone else, but my mood swings are alarming and at the moment anything can bring me crashing down.

And I am sitting here thinking I shouldn't post that, I shouldn't bother anybody.

Maybe I should view it as restoring a vintage car.. is going to take time and work to find the right pieces but will be all gleaming and chromified and a total classic when finished!!

But thank you, very very much . I am still gobsmacked sometimes at being welcomed and liked I hope by you all, it means a lot...

yo crispy! How are you? Good hols?? It is a bugger with the constant vomiting but makes me feel really sorry for Mouse and what she and her ds have to go through

Double - very true. Fat Mole changes for no man believe me. She is what she is. Fat. And all chubberly if you know what I mean, all scruncy on the arms and legs, yummy.

Did you get free doughnuts from the baker for the shag? Id shag anyone for a double meringue wedged together with fresh cream.........

Mouse - congratulations on your anniversary and well done on the other, I kind of got the jist from a couple of posts higher up. I will be rooting for you.

Miitz - I dont know what to say apart from that I am probably in a similar place to you at the moment (if its not too presumptious to say that) and it is very hard. I know that things that happened in my childhood have reared their ugly head since I became a mother, thinking of your own dc going through what you went through makes you want to scoop up the child that you were and run off with them to safety. Probably not put that well sorry, Im not good at the feeling stuff. Well, I feel, I just cant express

Ive probably cross posted loads so will do another wave

Hey lovelies! You dropped off my Threads I'm on, you buggers!

SAF, I am with you on hermitness, it's genetic in my case and I'm always fighting it, but hve found it sooo tricky since DS arrived.
But I've really been making progress the last few weeks and hope you can continue to.

Fluffy, how's your thingumy?

Bitter is so right about Butlins, I felt soooo posh.