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You'll find discussions about A Levels and universities on our Further Education forum.

Class of '18 now in 2019. blimey.

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OhYouBadBadKitten · 14/01/2019 10:53

hang on....

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janinlondon · 20/03/2019 12:21

I am mostly a lurker on here - have tried to read the whoe thread but you guys are PROLIFIC!! So apologies if it has been covered already, but I am just popping in to ask for any advice about how people are planning to pay for rentals for next academic year. DD will have to pay rent from July 1, but there will be no maintenance payments till October. How do most people sort it? Clearly we will have to fork out, but I just wondered if I am being thick? Am also (already) worrying about the reduced payment in final year and cannot imagine how much more that is going to cost us!! Any advice very much appreciated.

ShanghaiDiva · 20/03/2019 12:27

For ds's accommodation for the second academic year we had to pay the first month's rent and a month's deposit when he signed the contract. He signed the contract back in January I think.
His contract runs from 1st September to 31st August the following year with rent during the summer months of July and August charged at half the monthly amount.
It's a constant outflow of cash!

janinlondon · 20/03/2019 12:40

Yes we paid a deposit in January too - but half monthly for summer is a good deal! I wish we had that....(sigh)...

OhYouBadBadKitten · 20/03/2019 13:00

Flowers Tapas.

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ShanghaiDiva · 20/03/2019 13:01

Yes, I was surprised about the half monthly rent over the summer - was fully expecting to pay the full amount.

janinlondon · 20/03/2019 13:51

Tapas have just looked back and found your post - I am so sorry for your loss.

starfleet · 20/03/2019 14:36

Sorry for your loss Tapas Flowers

Nettleskeins · 20/03/2019 17:00

MrsAwesome yes a "gap" year enforced or unenforced can be quite a change of pace. I took a gap year because I was retaking 2 A levels and it was lonely and miserable...until May..when everyone came back and my exams were over, so you have really only two months. Could she learn a new skill - language - craft, musical instrument, or be in charge of the younger sibling's homework, or do some decorating for you, sorting, classifying? But it can take a while to adjust. My friend had to kick her son out of bed at one point and send him off to be a barista in a wine bar, which sorted the social side very quickly. (he was a mathematician with quite fixed interests in his gap)

Tapas very much end of an era, and of course the regrets, thinking about the past etc, even if it is a relief on another level.

Kitten interview [good]

Marmite I think that means uni is quite fun for them, and home suddenly a bit bland. A good way round. And then a dose of blandness can be good after too much adventurousness..

ds1 has now taken to ringing us quite often with updates on exams etc, quite minute details about what he wrote etc. Curiouser and Curioser, I think like me he likes chatting on the phone and finds it much easier when body language is removed. He will be bored when he comes home though for any length of time. I had a nap in his room as I could hear the dog more easily from there, and the boxroom is the nicest room in the house, like some cosy nook, I can now see why he doesn't want to leave it except for meals when he stays here. His previous room was very much more palatial but ds2 has it now, and spread A level stuff everywhere and photographic equipment.

puppy doing well, very vigorous bitey but beginning to learn the art of mooching around if we time it right. Still very hard work tho - be warned!

UrsulaPandress · 20/03/2019 17:40

I may have already mentioned but BastardSpaniel frequently reduced me to tears when he was a puppy.

Now I weep quietly for his lost youth.

TapasForTwo · 20/03/2019 20:53

Thank you for all your kind wishes.

Knotaknitter · 21/03/2019 21:24

Late to the thread (again). I would like to announce that DS passed his room inspection. This was down to a combination of someone in the flat knowing it was coming and him shoveling the accumulation from his floor into the bottom of the wardrobe. I suspect that it will now gradually slump back to its previous condition.

OhYouBadBadKitten · 21/03/2019 21:26

hurrah!

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UrsulaPandress · 21/03/2019 21:35

Room Inspection? Actually I think dd had one last term when they discovered her toilet seat was broken. No doubt that repair will be knocked off the deposit.

TheFirstOHN · 21/03/2019 21:43

I think room inspections are mostly looking for things that break the rules (non-adherence to fire regulations; signs of subletting; drugs) rather than tidiness.

DS1 keeps his room fairly tidy, but the shared kitchen is a different matter.

Nettleskeins · 22/03/2019 11:34

I don't think my [house] room would pass an inspection at the moment Blush My wardrobe in the living room (!) which was meant to be a way to shovel mess away from the floor, has lost its door and it has all fallen out! Dog's crate is a nice safe little haven in a sea of muddle..

Last night I went out to dinner party where the resident 9 year old (rather portly)spaniel was sitting in the velvet armchair looking beautiful, with its chestnut topknot. I realised it is perfectly normal to have a dog AND a life. went home experiencing rush of love for my little bitey bundle who was fast asleep in the kitchen dd having stormed off to do "revision", ds2 was sitting there disconsolately staring into space surrounded by pizza crusts.Hmm

starfleet · 22/03/2019 19:31

I despair.

I asked DS to send off for the council tax exemption form from the university.

They only send it as a hard copy so I asked him to scan and email it so I could upload it which was fine and then to post me the actual thing in case I need to show the original.

His question? "Will I need to put it in a new envelope and will it need a stamp?"

TheFirstOHN · 22/03/2019 19:57

starfleet That actually doesn't surprise me. Sending things by post is no longer an everyday skill for that generation. It would be almost like asking me to send a telegram.

TheFirstOHN · 22/03/2019 20:02

DS1's girlfriend has recently lost her grandad; he has come home for the weekend so he can support her at the funeral.

On a happier note, they've gone to a backstage party this evening at his girlfriend's workplace, which happens to be one of the coolest tourist attractions in Britain (clue: they are about to open a new 'bank').

TapasForTwo · 22/03/2019 20:12

DD's BF isn't coming home for Easter. She isn't very well just now and is bitterly disappointed at not being well enough to go to a party tonight. Her social life is pretty non existent at the moment, which makes it worse.

Knotaknitter · 22/03/2019 21:34

I had to coach about stamps and envelopes earlier in the year as it was really not possible to email granny's birthday card. The accommodation has a staffed reception so I suggested that he ask them the location of the nearest post box because there's only so much effort I was prepared to put into it.

I know when he was smaller we did letters and addressing envelopes but it's not something that has had much practice over the years.

UrsulaPandress · 22/03/2019 21:41

Dd is going to a gig in Manchester tonight. She was wondering what they would do in the three hours between the end of the gig and the first train back to University. It took me 30 seconds to find a bus that left 50 minutes after the end of the gig for the princely sum of £3. I am currently basking in my supermum aura (Having sent her screenshots of where exactly to catch the ‘bus’)

starfleet · 22/03/2019 22:57

Is it the Megabus Ursula?

UrsulaPandress · 22/03/2019 22:59

It is indeed. Please don't tell me it will not be there at 3.50 near Victoria Station.

I worry they will pitch up here and disturb BastardSpaniel.

Hardwickwhite · 22/03/2019 23:42

So, we’ve been slightly concerned about DD recently. Not academically, but socially. I just checked where she was on find my phone, and she is in a pub DH and I drank in as students. DH is now unsettled Grin

UrsulaPandress · 22/03/2019 23:46

Be careful what you wish for.