god- went out for the day and there's an extra 5 pages of replys to you!! hope your feeling better, and now this thread is turning quite positive, not like at the beginning where you must have felt awful!! i was only 19 when i gave birth to my son, we were in a tiny 3rd floor flat and i was weaning him in a kitchen the size of my bathroom now and using a blender bought at a car boot sale to blitz things up....do you have a food processor?...as what i did after the initial weaning onto foods (ie one food at a time for a taste) is just blitzed him up a small amount of what we were eating...i started cooking much healthier for myself and my now husband, and just blitzed up a could of spoons full for him to eat...
now he eats nearly everything, he doesn't like mushrooms but then neither does his daddy....and he's not a fan of lemon....my dd is amazing and at 20mths we've yet to come across something she doesn't like!! ie last night for our tea we ate grilled chicken breasts on a bun with a blob of mayo, and a side salad....and then had half a grapefruit each for desert....we all loved it, and the burger was our 'slob food' instead of take-away!!
you'll find that with him still only being very young he'll not need fully structured meals, my 2 would have just mash and peas for tea and a yoghurt for pud or a banana etc....
now at 3 and 20mths they will eat toast or a bowl of cereal and a piece of fruit with a cup of orange or milk (which ds calls milk milkshake)
then for lunch normally a sandwich/egg on toast/cheese on toast/salad (and in winter add still warm boiled eggs and new pots), followed by more fruit, sometimes a bag of goodies crisps as a treat (for 12mths +) and maybe a yoghurt and some juice
then for mid-afternoon snack its a piece of fruit or chopped carrots or box of rasins
tea same as me and dh now...normally meat and 2 veg in some form....or spag bol or lasagne as i told you earlier!!
tomorrow i'm making chilli which is almost the same as the spag bol but replace mushrooms with a tin of kidney beans and the garlic with some chilli flakes/chilli powder/chilli sauce and serve with rice....i used to make it without the chilli in first, take babies portions out and then add the chilli before dishing up for me and dh....but since dd got to 12 mths we've found she loves food with a bit of spice to it!! and ds loves it too!!