Interesting article in the Irish Times. You need a subscription but it works to use the archiver at archive.ph.
https://www.irishtimes.com/health/your-wellness/2024/08/04/after-years-of-consenting-to-sex-i-didnt-want-i-want-to-take-a-break-from-it-how-do-i-tell-my-husband/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2OPQDps9jVjvdOiwcIJba87GkBcVah3V49cGfNQVmQXcXKBiDda69YkMMaem0Ttx-PrfCPijpgdwzLhcCw
“consent that is given because of internalised pressure to be nice, to be liked, out of a sense of duty, or a desire to connect in some way, even if we don’t necessarily want that connection to be sexual….
“…the societal and cultural sense of duty that is often placed on women to have sex with men or male partners, noting that men’s sexual desire and pleasure is often prioritised over women’s boundaries in a culture that “grooms women from a young age for a life of sexual and emotional sacrifice”.