I keep seeing this all over the internet men saying "women live life on easy / tutorial mode" That women cannot understand the pain and suffering that men go though and that we are always taken care of, never have to struggle. That we are effortlessly loved, adored and given support emotional (from other women usually) just because we are female, beautiful, can have babies.
I think a lot of this because some men think that women can find sexual partners easily or are more frequently desired and to them that is the number one desirable situation to be in ( am really not so sure they would be happy to put up with being groped and sexually harassed or threatened in the way that many women are). These men never seem to take into account the difficulties women face the world over and through time in a world that is designed for men medical drugs, car seat belts tailored to men for example, that at every turn seeks to remove women's agency from them i.e. removing removing of reproductive rights in the states for example. That we still don't get paid the same as men, the motherhood penalty, sexual harassment, assault, rape, violence and murder at the hands of men, often those men closest to us. Many women (not all of course) suffer terribly with conditions like PCOS, Endometriosis, menstrual migraines, the physical risks inherent in pregnancy and childbirth or that women while they go to see a GP more readily are less likely to have there concerns treated seriously or be brushed off as suffering depression and anxiety when they are actually ill or that conditions that predominately affect women attract less funding and research. The social conditioning that commonly women are subjected to from birth teaching us to be compliant people pleasers, not to make a fuss and essentially take all kinds of abuse in life.
One choice post I saw suggested that for a man being rejected by a woman was worse than rape, in fact I think he called it "reverse rape" and that women who were raped were lucky because at least someone wanted them and they got sex out of it and that they were probably asking for it anyway. I mean what? They take the attitude that everything that goes wrong for a woman in her fault but that everything that goes wrong for them is always someone else's, usually a woman's fault. For them a woman never has to worry because she just "is" while a man must worry about how he can be a man, worry if he will ever find a partner, have children, how he will support those children and so on. As if women don't also worry about all of those things and more.
It seems to me that the kind of men who would say something like "women live life on easy mode" have zero empathy for women as complex human beings with a wide range of lived experience and only have in their minds eye the most attractive, young, privileged women (who are still complex human beings who suffer and struggle like the rest of us). Ultimately a man who says or thinks "women live life on easy mode" does not see women as a being a human just like him, we are objects to him, with no inner life and no purpose beyond our perceived utility to him. A man like that is going to struggle to find any woman who will be interested in him precisely because he sees her as a mindless object. He cannot understand that women do support each other so well partly because of how difficult and unsafe our lives can be in a male dominated world.
Perhaps it has always been like this and we just see these comments more often because of the internet but I don't think things like access to limitless hardcore pornography online is helping much. Or the fact that these attitudes are spreading to young men before they have ever even had a relationship with a woman. Women seem to be increasingly rejecting relationships with men and it isn't hard to see why.