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Mother arrested in front of child by Met over bus fare (that she had paid!)

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TERFinTheHouse · 24/07/2023 22:21

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Why was this woman arrested like this!?! Her poor child!

According to other Tweeters, she had paid her bus fare BTW.

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loveheartsonaflower · 25/07/2023 02:26

LakeTiticaca · 24/07/2023 22:59

And yet the London murder rate continues to rise unabated.......

It doesn’t and even if it did I fail to understand how this has anything to do with a woman being arrested for fare evasion in front of her distraught child.

chutneysauce · 25/07/2023 02:33

People are casting judgement on the word of the police who have proven to be not the most trustworthy. It would be interesting to see the whole video (from the second she was apparently asked to show her proof of paid travel and refused). I don't buy the police story that everyone seems to have blindly agreed must be the only truth.

SammyScrounge · 25/07/2023 02:38

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WandaWonder · 25/07/2023 02:41

So the only reason she was arrested was because she refused to show her ticket? nothing else happened that was just it?

PerfectYear321 · 25/07/2023 02:57

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2023 02:14

This situation is awful and I feel sorry for the poor woman arrested for a potential minor infraction when according to comments on a recent thread, shops can’t get police to attend when they’re frequently cleared out by people known to them on cctv.

I was on that thread. The young man did not have ownership of the bike. The woman, a pregnant medic, who had just completed a 12 hour shift, had just paid to hire the bike. She was physically on the bike and had removed it from the dock. The young man, whilst she was on the bike and attempting to go home, then forced the bike back in the docking station because he wanted the bike for himself. That in itself was an act of aggression.

He btw was on an underprivileged youth scheme, where he didn’t have to pay to hire a bike as long as he redocked every 45 mins. She took the specific bike that he had been riding around on for some hours, redocking every 45 mins. It was her legal right to take the bike. She wanted the snazzy electric bike. Pregnant, having just completed a long shift, legally as well as morally, he should have left her to take the bike. He could have hired another bike, even if it was one of the older style bikes or gone on a search for an alternative newer style bike.

The youth in question thought he had some kind of ownership over the bike. He did not. It got very heated and the woman was overwhelmed and said some stuff, which could have put the youth in danger, which was wrong. However, he man handled that bike back into the docking station in the first place thus preventing her from going home. Having been pregnant myself, she probably felt pretty vulnerable surrounded by a group of young adult or almost adult males.

Thats a very comprehensive defence of the woman in that controversial video. Please post the proof

DeeCeeCherry · 25/07/2023 03:23

It's 2023 and racist fools on here cast aspersions without knowing - you don't get a ticket on a London bus. There is no ticket to refuse to show.

You tap your Oyster Card, which is what this lady did. A bus inspector uses a handheld machine placed on Oyster Card, to check fare is paid. The bus inspectors in this case, made an error in thinking she hadn't paid. So they called the police - which isn't the norm at all actually. They were heavy handed. Additionally TFL fare payment doesn't immediately show on Bank app anyway - and not everybody has Bank app on their phone anyway, not is anyone obliged to show a bank statement.

The Inspector could simply have issued a penalty notice then the passenger would dispute it, and no doubt win since by that time, fare payment was show up. It happens. Calling police is needlessly looking for drama and trouble but it's Croydon, they likely looked forward to seeing a Black Woman arrested and in distress.

The local MP is involved and thankfully doesn't appear to be so dimly racist as several of you are. Nor the onlookers who at least have a sense of justice.

This is the most abhorrent board on MN - complaining about women's rights all the time but 1st to disbelieve and tear down a woman when she's a different race and colour than you. You set women's rights back by years hence can't achieve anything in respect of rights,and can't even see yourselves as how silly you are.

I won't bother to scroll up but I bet the 'Well I'm Black too (sure you are...) but she was in the wrong' crew are already on here.

Huromjuicemaker · 25/07/2023 04:07

Twyford · 25/07/2023 00:09

I can see a scenario where this lady may not have understood what they were asking for, given that she wouldn't have had a ticket to show anyone (because London Transport don't issue tickets) and therefore, when they asked to see tickets, she didn't think it applied to her; and she walked away because it was her stop and she needed to get to wherever she was going to.. I live in London and have never had anyone asking to check my Oyster card on a bus.

Or possibly she may have panicked knowing that she didn't have a ticket - albeit legitimately because she'd used her card - and thought she would get picked on as a result of bitter experience of being picked on before solely because she was black.

this makes sense to me. Being asked to re-swipe her card could be construed as being asked to pay again? Or in itself being accused of not paying?

If there is one thing that drives me up the wall it is the smugness of the (majority of?) people who can cope with modern concepts like not having a ticket and think that because they can everyone can and if they can't; well it is their own fault for being stupid.

Why can't they just issue tickets, I'm pretty sure this would be the root cause if properly investigated

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2023 06:07

PerfectYear321 · 25/07/2023 02:57

Thats a very comprehensive defence of the woman in that controversial video. Please post the proof

The evidence was posted at the end of the thread on the topic. Did you see it?

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2023 06:09

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Is that a fact and is there proof that she was abusive prior to the police arriving? We simply cannot say from this clip. I’m surprised a mother would want to traumatise her small child in this way. Poor baby.

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2023 06:10

Mummyoflittledragon · 25/07/2023 06:09

Is that a fact and is there proof that she was abusive prior to the police arriving? We simply cannot say from this clip. I’m surprised a mother would want to traumatise her small child in this way. Poor baby.

Unless that wasn’t clear, I was meaning I don’t think it was staged.

AlisonDonut · 25/07/2023 06:55

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Because TfL don't do tickets?

So if you are asked for a ticket and you don't have one...erm...prepare for the worst.

ohfook · 25/07/2023 07:03

WandaWonder · 25/07/2023 02:41

So the only reason she was arrested was because she refused to show her ticket? nothing else happened that was just it?

TfL don't issue tickets.

bunchofboys · 25/07/2023 07:34

Upsetting footage but as a mother i would never just walk away when asked to show my ticket. What was she thinking of allowing the situation to escalate like that in front of her child. Ridiculous situation all round. Poor child.

wherethewildthingis · 25/07/2023 07:40

This is racist- the actions of the police in this video are racist. And the posters on this thread throwing out their doubts and what they would have done/how it's her own fault, are racist.
I've lurked on this corner of mumsnet for a long time but the racism is so awful and it's driving me away. And others too I would think.

mumda · 25/07/2023 07:43

Ticket inspectors come with the police on the Manchester tram. They do operations to clamp down on fare evasion which is a big problem on some routes.
I hate the idea of tapping in and out. I think it's fraught with difficulties. Give me a real ticket every time.

AlisonDonut · 25/07/2023 07:58

PerfectYear321 · 25/07/2023 02:57

Thats a very comprehensive defence of the woman in that controversial video. Please post the proof

Please just go and look at the actual results of the actual incident that many of us have now read.

She had paid for it and she picked one that was available. How was she to know that he had 'bagsied' it for his own personal use?

dessyh · 25/07/2023 08:13

“Fled the bus” 🙄

She had paid her £1.75 fare. It's mostly done by contactless credit card in London. Some people still have Oyster cards. Cash is not accepted and no tickets are issued. It's difficult to sneak onto a London bus in towns.

Imagine a busy mum who’s caring for a young child and has somewhere to be sees ticket police board at her stop and, rather than wait around after a completed, paid for journey, gets off. Police choose to pursue her in the street and protest from the mother emboldens them to restrain, handcuff and arrest her in front of her young child. Anyone defending this is advocating for a terrifying society.

If it had of been the case that she’d duped tfl out of £1.75, then swore at the Met officers questioning her, handling such a case with physical restraint, handcuffs and arrest (in the presence of her child!) is STILL not the response of a civilised police force. It’s even against the Peel principles the boss of the Met has promised. Those who support such a disproportionate response (“well if she was abusive she deserved it etc”) are scary, possibly police, very likely racist. You love the idea the police are always right and keep you secure more than you like the idea of a fair and equal society.

The Met comment reads as police statement bingo too. The public don't know the full story. The wrongful arrest (plus manhandling, trauma) was justified. An ambiguous claim about the person 'becoming abusive'. Suggestion police were reasonable for “letting” the person go.

Also helpful to be aware of some of the other instances of how an overwhelmingly white police force treat black Croydon residents. Like the child aggressively arrested in the street by police who pinned him to the ground after he went out to buy toilet paper. The man stopped for wearing a coat in warm weather!

It'd be interesting to see the reaction if it was a white mum in Dulwich getting physically mauled by two coppers in front of little Arlo or Ottilie because she hopped off the bus at her stop and told them she was late for the school run. More people here would be appalled by unnecessary and aggressive shows of power from a force that’s in special measures and attracts and enables people like Wayne Couzens and the rest.

PerfectYear321 · 25/07/2023 08:41

Oh god, remember how outraged people were when those two blonde ladies were arrested for having a coffee in Covid? All hell broke loose. Got a spot in prune time TV too. Wonder what's different now.

PerfectYear321 · 25/07/2023 08:41

*prime

Pablacass · 25/07/2023 08:49

The only person who made the child cry was her mother who refused to show proof of payment. I travel on buses all the time and it's quite normal for TFL officers to come on and check people have paid. Why should she not be subject to the same scrutiny as everyone else?

Bus drivers and staff get loads of abuse from people. She was in the wrong. This could all have been avoided.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 25/07/2023 08:54

SmartHome · 24/07/2023 23:00

I don't think any of you realise how TFL works in London. You don't get a ticket to show anyone. You swipe your bank card or Oyster card against a card reader. You don't have anything to show. You just have to swipe your card again when some revenue person asks you to. It's very hard to see what is going on as they dont even take the money out of your account immediatley.

They have readers to check the Oysters but if she paid with a bank card how do they check that? I'm not handing over a card to be read either.

Brefugee · 25/07/2023 08:57

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i don't think that's true. (middle-aged white woman here)
I am not in the UK but i do notice that when the ticket inspectors come through our train, they are usually quite abrupt with non-white, people (either sex) and young men (any colour).

So without knowing how the request/demand was made for proof of payment, i think I'll believe black women when they say this is a regular occurrence and wonder, again, how i can help if i see things like this.

Soontobe60 · 25/07/2023 09:01

ohfook · 24/07/2023 23:06

Do you genuinely believe that the only explanation for her behaviour is so she could disregard her child's feelings and get her 15 mins of fame discussing her racist treatment by the met? Can you honestly not think of any other valid explanations?

Was that why Jean Charles de Menezes ran too? Just so he could play the racist card later?

He ran because he was being chased by armed police. She was asked for proof of purchasing a ticket, by a ticket inspector. She refused and walked off. The police, who were there to support the ticket inspectors in their work then stepped in.
In what world do you think its OK that ticket inspectors need a police escort to carry out their job?

Pablacass · 25/07/2023 09:02

'They have readers to check the Oysters but if she paid with a bank card how do they check that? I'm not handing over a card to be read either.'

You don't have to hand over your bank card. You tap it on the reader and they can see that you have paid. Don't be so ridiculous.

Soontobe60 · 25/07/2023 09:03

IfUnicornsWereReal · 25/07/2023 00:40

From what I’ve seen, she was already getting off of the bus therefore was under no obligation to show the ticket inspector her Oyster card, which is why she was walking away.

Some of these inspectors are shockingly rude, similar happened to me a few weeks ago. I’d got on the bus tapped with my phone but it didn’t connect properly to the reader, the inspectors got on so as usual tapped my phone on their reader which showed I hadn’t paid my fare.

I apologised and tapped it again as I was sitting right next to the driver, this time it paid the fare so I went to sit back down, the inspector told me he was going to give me a fine for my unpaid fare asking for my name which I refused to give as I had paid, he started shouting in my face telling me he was calling the police, being very intimidating, even the driver was shocked and apologised as I got off the bus after a shouting match.

TFL are an absolute shambles, they don’t even take the fares straight away and take them randomly as and when they feel like it.

You would have known that you hadn’t paid for your ticket because your phone wouldn't have bleeped.