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Emerging French rape case.

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Ageingweightlifter · 22/06/2023 12:06

Was listening to womens hour about that emerging French rape case. Words just fail me. I've not felt such visceral anger for a while. I just hope that victim has a massive protective shield around her.

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AbsoluteYawns · 25/06/2023 00:41

That poor woman. Such betrayal.
That man is a monster!

Needapadlockonmyfridge · 25/06/2023 10:29

It is utterly horrific. The poor woman.
I know NAMALT but clearly TMMALT.

BlooDeBloop · 30/06/2023 21:17

I had to find this thread after reading the latest article in the DM. www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12251667/What-story-man-drugged-wifes-suppers-raped-strangers-reveals.html (sorry I can't make clickable). At first I thought oh yes another French bashing excuse. However, having lived in rural France for over a decade, I'm saddened to say I recognise the men characterized. I'm beyond saddened. Sickened by the insouciance of the men but more by the culture that supports their views. I saw this and more. The 'possession' of wives. The entitlement of men and their 'needs'. Libertine in the most disgusting manner. I'm finding it hard to think about to be honest. And how everyone, even the solicitors, think of it as a non story. A woman's concept of herself and her partner upended for life in the most aggressive and violating manner possible, yet done under a naughty giggle (the exhausted they make...) I could go on...

ThePM · 01/07/2023 08:21

I read that article and thought it was French Bashing, this case has happened in France, but it could happen anywhere. It happens in all countries.

SapphosRock · 01/07/2023 09:20

Oh my God.

Some claimed they had no idea his wife was not consensual while one denied it was rape, saying: “It’s his wife, he does what he likes with her.”

That poor woman Flowers

TawnyFae · 01/07/2023 10:03

Not the only case by far and many, many within UK & Ireland - some convicted within the last few years alone.

Drugged rapes are off the scale in clubs, concerts, festivals, weddings, anywhere people might be having drinks & there be a major chance of them assuming they were drunk rather than drugged.

And if you think police are bad at investigating ‘normal’ rape? Try reporting drugged rape at all, much less this kind of ongoing rape and abuse within a home, involving drugging, cameras and additional men.

To one such ‘man’ : I know you’re on here, are you affected at all by the disgust at the actions you too committed? Or is it more titillation for you?

And to everyone asking how can the woman in the story recover - ime never completely

Every man in the street, in the supermarket, chemist, cop, doctor, dentist - relatives even - may have watched those videos, and made assumptions as to it being consensual/set up with the woman’s knowledge.

Now think about having to leave the house being that woman, never knowing if the greengrocer handing you back change is smiling because he has seen you being raped, or has raped you himself.

Never feeling safe ever, even at home, because do cops sweep your house for trackers, bugs or hidden cameras? No, no they do not.

So constant state of fear + constantly being actually in danger from perverts approaching & making sly comments about what they’ve seen + complete lack of interest of police/courts (if not outright collusion by individual officers) + comments from friends/family re ‘getting over it by now’

It will take an immense strength of will to survive and ime there is no ‘recovery’ in the usual sense.

viques · 03/07/2023 10:34

And unbelievably some of the rapists are trying to victim blame her by saying they thought she was “faking “ being unconscious. Yes dear, because if you are trawling the internet deliberately looking for pervy rape sites named “ she will never know” , and what is more enjoying the experience so much you are a repeat customer then of course your first thought is that she is faking her level of consciousness.

I hope they track them all down and expose them publicly.

MynameMyname · 03/07/2023 10:37

Husband is a horror no doubt but what horrifies me more is those scummy men who turned up at the house . They must have known something was very wrong . What on earth did they get out of raping a comotose woman?

MynameMyname · 03/07/2023 10:40

WallaceinAnderland · 22/06/2023 15:44

Caught for filming in women's changing rooms.

One man responsible for the abuse of many women. Tell me again why we are supposed to let them into our single sex spaces.

That poor woman, I hope she gets all the help and support she needs.

This is why a lot of stores are getting rid of fitting rooms and the potential hassles that go with them such as this scumbag .

MynameMyname · 03/07/2023 10:48

viques · 03/07/2023 10:34

And unbelievably some of the rapists are trying to victim blame her by saying they thought she was “faking “ being unconscious. Yes dear, because if you are trawling the internet deliberately looking for pervy rape sites named “ she will never know” , and what is more enjoying the experience so much you are a repeat customer then of course your first thought is that she is faking her level of consciousness.

I hope they track them all down and expose them publicly.

They have tracked down over fifty of them and they are going to court . So every one of them will be named and shamed .

RedRosette2023 · 03/07/2023 11:03

ThePoshUns · 22/06/2023 17:56

It takes a lot to shock me as I work in this area but this has really upset me to read. I feel so angry that not just one man , her husband thought this was acceptable but so did at least 50 more. That poor poor woman.
It's appalling.

That’s truly shocking isn’t it. The extent that others were happy to go along with this.

Shadowreturn · 09/07/2023 07:50

Many men don't see women as human beings
Many men see women as objects
Many men see women as ownership

This quote is absolutely disgusting
"Some of his accomplices claimed they had no idea his wife was not consensual while one denied it was rape, saying: 'It's his wife, he does what he likes with her."

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