I work with a lot of men in high-powered positions. Most of them are in fairly "traditional" marriages (i.e., "SHE's a SAHM - or works a job making less than half of what he makes, which means HE is free to fly to Vietnam, India and Germany all week every other week - because: business!". Even my male colleagues find the concept of a "tradwife" utterly weird and somewhat unsettling!
Colleague A's wife doesn't care about his business travel - but she insists he's home Fridays because she has a life of her own!
Colleagues B's wife I have actually never met - despite having worked with her husband for half a decade (multi-week trips and weekends away included): he does all that and it's fine with her - but she does not and will not play at "executive spouse". In other words: she flat out refuses to host us or to turn up to "+1 included" social events.
Colleague C's wife has a perfectly normal, nowhere nearly as highly paid as his, FT job. Their kids are teens. She does more of the housework, he contributes more to the bills. I might not agree, but it's their arrangement.
None of these women come anything close to being "surrendered" to their husbands. And, good on them, too!
There's a world of difference between "making an arrangement" (being divorced, I personally wouldn't - but: each to their own on that one!) and actively propagating as a "lifestyle" the dehumanisation of women!