Feminism: chat
Dating when feminist...
SelkieSeal · 02/04/2022 19:51
I mean where the fuck does one even START?
All I want is a left wing, non-porn-addled FWB who can hold a conversation... I'm independent and have a life of my own that I want to keep separate (at least to start with), I don't want any more kids, I don't want a father figure to my existing kids, I don't want to live with anyone, I don't want to get married etc. Where do I look? I'm thinking Tinder is not the place, but is there anywhere better?
Charley50 · 05/04/2022 19:10
@SelkieSeal
All I want is a left wing, non-porn-addled FWB who can hold a conversation... I'm independent and have a life of my own that I want to keep separate (at least to start with), I don't want any more kids, I don't want a father figure to my existing kids, I don't want to live with anyone, I don't want to get married etc. Where do I look? I'm thinking Tinder is not the place, but is there anywhere better?
Graham Linehan?
AlaskaFound · 05/04/2022 22:49
@Toomanyradishes
That's because they aren't making much sense.
Political views are a reflection of a person's character.
Being able to hold a conversation doesn't mean that someone talks a lot. Being a good listener is as much / more a part of being a good conversationalist as is talking a lot.
Toomanyradishes · 05/04/2022 22:53
AlaskaFound
Toomanyradishes
Not really sure what point you are trying to make greasyshoes
That's because they aren't making much sense.
Political views are a reflection of a person's character.
Being able to hold a conversation doesn't mean that someone talks a lot. Being a good listener is as much / more a part of being a good conversationalist as is talking a lot.
Agreed!
Polecat03 · 05/04/2022 22:59
Join some closed Facebook groups where you might find that demographic of partner based on interests or social issues/ politics. Look for people who post regularly, do some recon on their page, do you find any of them attractive? If so contribute to their posts a lot and that group. Move the conversation over to private messenger. This has worked for a few friends of mine, much more effectively than dating sites.
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