Dating when feminist...

[SelkieSeal]

I mean where the fuck does one even START?

All I want is a left wing, non-porn-addled FWB who can hold a conversation... I'm independent and have a life of my own that I want to keep separate (at least to start with), I don't want any more kids, I don't want a father figure to my existing kids, I don't want to live with anyone, I don't want to get married etc. Where do I look? I'm thinking Tinder is not the place, but is there anywhere better?

[Polecat03]

Join some closed Facebook groups where you might find that demographic of partner based on interests or social issues/ politics. Look for people who post regularly, do some recon on their page, do you find any of them attractive? If so contribute to their posts a lot and that group. Move the conversation over to private messenger. This has worked for a few friends of mine, much more effectively than dating sites.

[MsFogi]

Ad in Private Eye?

[Toomanyradishes]

AlaskaFound

Toomanyradishes

Not really sure what point you are trying to make greasyshoes

That's because they aren't making much sense.

Political views are a reflection of a person's character.

Being able to hold a conversation doesn't mean that someone talks a lot. Being a good listener is as much / more a part of being a good conversationalist as is talking a lot.

Agreed!

[Summerhillsquare]

Found mine on bumble 😉

Dunno what age you are OP but I am forties and certainly found my independence and forthrightness was very attractive to younger men who were busy avoiding marriage and children. And I am no looker.

[AlaskaFound]

@Toomanyradishes

Not really sure what point you are trying to make greasyshoes

That's because they aren't making much sense.

Political views are a reflection of a person's character.

Being able to hold a conversation doesn't mean that someone talks a lot. Being a good listener is as much / more a part of being a good conversationalist as is talking a lot.

[greasyshoes]

Not really sure what point you are trying to make greasyshoes

I know.

[Toomanyradishes]

Not really sure what point you are trying to make greasyshoes

[Charley50]

@SelkieSeal

I mean where the fuck does one even START?

All I want is a left wing, non-porn-addled FWB who can hold a conversation... I'm independent and have a life of my own that I want to keep separate (at least to start with), I don't want any more kids, I don't want a father figure to my existing kids, I don't want to live with anyone, I don't want to get married etc. Where do I look? I'm thinking Tinder is not the place, but is there anywhere better?

Graham Linehan?

[greasyshoes]

can hold a conversation do speak to both personality and character though

Empty vessels make the most noise.
Still waters lie deep.

So sure, someone who talks a lot may not have much personality or character.

[Toomanyradishes]

It sounds very strange and boring to select a sexual partner on the basis of their politics. What about their personality or their character?
Non porn addled and can hold a conversation do speak to both personality and character though

[greasyshoes]

All I want is a left wing, non-porn-addled FWB who can hold a conversation...

It sounds very strange and boring to select a sexual partner on the basis of their politics. What about their personality or their character?

[Deliriumoftheendless]

I agree if that’s what you’re after then your women friends sound the best bet.

If you want a heterosexual relationship as well then I have no idea, but good luck.

[AlaskaFound]

Well that went over like a lead balloon

[AlaskaFound]

Maybe among your women friends?

Workplace, hobbies, Internet forums based around social or political interests?

Good luck!