This is the only place I can come and read people sticking up for the victims.
The comments under all the news reports and people on SM are overwhelmingly saying "innocent until proven guilty" and the age old "Oh they are just after his money!"
How can people read his tweets and see his own words and defend him?
Ive worked in a different industry a sports related one where this kind of behaviour is totally normal and I did love the banter and a lot of the times it was funny but it makes me feel sick all the times me and the girls and women I worked with have had to laugh off being uncomfortable for fear of being called boring, frigid, can't take a joke.
The first thing I was asked in training is can you take being yelled and shouted at because if you're soft there's no point you being here.
One girl had her fingers broken by a trainer having a laugh and going too far. She was sent home and nothing was ever said about it.
My friend turned down the advances of one of the popular lads and he turned everyone turned against her.
I didn't see until I got out how abusive it all was it was because you are in a bubble, the job is your life, you live on the job, you socialise with the people you work with.
I've been in an abusive relationship and looking back on that job it feels like the same thing.
The general reaction to the NC news is so depressing. It makes me despair.