hi, im new, im so confused.i dont trust s.s my ex has custody of my 8 yr ol son,with a care order. i have p.r . my boy visits weekends n hols. he went back at 7pm and was calling me at 8pm. he wants 2 live wiv me again but is scared his dad will be mad. he is scared police will bust them. i promisid i would protect him and make him feel safe. Now i feel so guilty that i cannot just go and get him. do i tell s.s? They have told me they would not object if i asked court to reveiw cutody. he been with dad for three yrs now.