My mum has done it to me again!! i have never really got on with my mum, but for the sake of my 2 ds i have been trying very hard the last 7 years to let the past be forgotton and get on with her. even though at every oppurtunity she has, she puts me and my dh down, e'g you can't afford that, why have you spent that much on that, why can't you just.... etc etc.
anyway, last sunday someone reversed into my car in b&q car park and my car is being written off by the insurance company, so i need to buy a new car. the problem being, because i am a studen i can't get finance and had asked my dad to gurantee car finance for me, to which he had agreed, my mum who has an even older and crappier car than the one that is being written off, went out this weekend and brought a new car! the very one that i had shown her that i was buying and to top it off got my dad to gurantee her loan as hes is a housewife and doesn't have an income.
he now can't gurantee my loan and my mum has said oh well you can have my car!!!
i know it sounds like i'm being selfish but it really is the last straw in a long line of things that have been going on in the last few years, i'm absolutley distraught but my dh justsays i told you so!
i obviously don't really expect any advice justw anted to rant and be reassured that i'm not over reacting!