i am sooo fed up

[fostermum]

i want to end my marraige as we have nothing in common, i want to change my job because i feel im put upon to much, i want to take charge of my life instead of being pushed about,but ive no idea where the hell to start!

A holiday,ALONE??

got one booked for july,going home to new zealand for three weeks,

Alone???

yes alone,my husband was only to pleased for me to go,he spending most his time out with his mates and moterbike

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ok dokey - the main issue is money - i.e. having enough for you (plus any maintenance etc he might be paying you) to live on, pay bills etc, and whether if you change jobs, you will be able to do that.

do you have any concrete ideas as to a new job?

gpopo-good advice and a good order!

oh i know what i want to do and how i could support my self, but how to get it set in motion is the hard bit yes im still fostering but want to go over to supported accomidation,i just feel so closed in!husband hasnt wanted to know me for about two years now i made my mind up to split he suddenly being nice which makes it harder to do because we are friends if nothing else

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yes thats the thing the plan ummmm where to start

hi i know this is a difficult time for you and as u know if your that unhapy you need to change your life, you should talk to your husband and say what ur thinking and that your going away to think about it. also you know your children are all there for you and will support you 100% doing what you want with your life xxx

thank you oh wise one hows that grandson of mine?

fine sleeping like a baby lol remember what i said use me im here my home is your home and my ears are yours for listning x