Just for once I didn't give in to my 3 year old. I explained why he couldn't have what he wanted and then ignored his strop. He walked off.
DD and DS2 didn't behave and again I didn't give in after I had told them what would happen if they didn't do what I asked.
This might seem small but after the few days I have had, it feels an achievement and I need all those I can get right now.