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Helping daughter with multiple MH issues

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RiderGirl · 01/10/2026 19:42

My DD is nearly 25, and struggling. She's got bipolar (type 2), EUPD and autism. She has got a full time job (in the NHS) but is constantly battling to hold herself together and I'm worried whether she's heading for a crash. In wondering what support (mainly financial) there could be for her if so - she doesn't get any benefits whatsoever, she's got a little rented flat that she pays for herself, but generally finds things overwhelming. I hate seeing her struggle so much and if the wheels do fall off I'm not sure how to help her.

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BeigeCardiganOfDoom · 01/10/2026 20:01

She could try applying for PIP. If she needs to cut hours dramatically and then has a low income then she could try applying for ESA/Universl credit.

Notgonnatalkabouttheweather · 01/10/2026 20:01

Does she live with you?

PurpleLovecats · 01/10/2026 20:15

Notgonnatalkabouttheweather · 01/10/2026 20:01

Does she live with you?

Says in the OP that she has a flat.

@RiderGirl I second applying for PIP.

Notgonnatalkabouttheweather · 01/10/2026 20:18

sorry

does she live alone?

RiderGirl · 01/10/2026 20:46

Yes she lives alone - little one bed flat that she's rented for 2.5 years

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Notgonnatalkabouttheweather · 02/10/2026 07:21

RiderGirl · 01/10/2026 20:46

Yes she lives alone - little one bed flat that she's rented for 2.5 years

That is very impressive. Not many 22 year olds have achieved that at so young an age.

Cantstopeatingjaffacakes · 02/10/2026 07:27

I have similar diagnosis and receive PIP - it helps pay for therapy and things like taxis to work when I really can’t cope with public transport.

The form is horrible as you have to acknowledge everything you can’t do but maybe you could fill it in with her?

RiderGirl · 17/10/2026 08:53

Notgonnatalkabouttheweather · 02/10/2026 07:21

That is very impressive. Not many 22 year olds have achieved that at so young an age.

While I agree that she's done well in this regard it was also out of necessity as it was very difficult for her to live with us - but she's also struggling as rent and bills mean there's not a lot left over for anything nice! But I know there are a lot of people in worse situations there and she's aware that she's lucky

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RiderGirl · 17/10/2026 08:54

I think I'll approach the PIP form with her and help her fill it out - perhaps if she is eligible for a bit of help there it will take the pressure off a bit. Just so so worried about her at the moment.

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