Hi everyone,
My husband has had a terrible year with job loss which has made him leave his career. he has found some casual work (outdoor labour) to contribute. I am well paid. He has therapy and has been gaining strength. He has neurological pain which is made worse by cold weather and working outdoors. Meds have changed and after a period of being elated he has crashed low again saying he feels two weeks away from total breakdown. I want him to stop working and get pain free so he has space to breathe again but he wants to keep going. How can I help him get some solutions?he clearly doesn't want to be fixed and just wants me to be with him and listen etc! I am really struggling and scared about his safety too, worrying he could do something stupid.