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Low and fed up.

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malificent7 · 27/11/2025 07:57

Traumatic childhood ...violent mum
Bullued at school
Abusive relationship....made me very ill
Had dd alone....her dad ran off
Violent mum died ahe 58...i wa 30.
My dad who is ok but can be stingy...cery high academic standards, staryed hoing out with a friend's mum less than 5 months after death.
Said " friend" and I had toxic relationsjip....hardly talk now...she used to go out with loads of my exes. Weird
Teen dd mean to me.
Working band 6 toxic department. Unhappy and skint.
DH lovely but super messy ...does some housework. . He had a lovely childhood so dosnt get it
My life is ok but aibu to ferl low. About to go work in toxic environment now.

Emdr helped me with abusive ex. No time for tgerapy atm. Dd very expensive...i neex to work ft plys overyime.

Dad is loaded but will not help financially.

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malificent7 · 27/11/2025 07:57

Sorry for typos

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sakura06 · 27/11/2025 08:32

Sorry to hear you are struggling. Can you put in a claim with CMS for your DD’s dad to contribute? Could you find a therapist to talk to? Or maybe phone a helpline? It sounds like you’re trying to process a lot about your childhood, your mum’s death and your abusive ex. Sending best wishes.

malificent7 · 27/11/2025 12:35

He does contribute £100 per month which is dds pocket money.

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