I have been having a rough time with a limerence on the one hand and a non appreciative boyfriend on the other. It was really affecting my mental health and I felt powerless. Recently, I decided to invest in myself a lot more. I have been putting myself out there and trying to learn more about who I am. I definitely feel much stronger and I have completely gotten over limerence guy without feeling sad. I am taking it a day at a time with my current boyfriend to see if it is worth staying for.
I really appreciate the support from the Mumsnet community and I genuinely needed someone to be both honest and supportive. Thank you so much.