Life Is Shit

[thewiltedrose]

Here is why my life is shit:

Im in debt
I dont know what to study
I cant get a job
My kids are becoming little shits
Im depressed
Im ill
i have no money
I have no friends
I might be pregnant.

Feel free to add your own, becasue i cant be the only one here.

for you wilted

sending you hugs xxx

why are you ill?

What do you want to do with your life?

What are your good points? What do you enjoy doing?

Your children are lovely and all kids can be troublesome at times. You just think yours are worse because you dont feel too good.

How big are your debts?

do you have any family to help you?

why dont you have any friends?

You need to find out if you are PG or not so do a test.

I will let you wallow for a bit but at some point you have to get on with things for the sake of your children. Am sad for you though as life is not always great but you can make it better.

Oh heres some more,

my house is a tip
im not losing any weight
And mumsnet is so fucking slow right now its taken me 10 minutes just to refresh a fucking page

Dont know why im ill its proberly coz im run down

I dont have the first clue what to do with my life

I have no good points and i dont care if i enjoy it i need the money

My children really arnt lovely there becoming more and more troublesome and i cant cope with them anymore

My debt is for and a half grand

I have no family

I have no friends that actually help only drinking friends

An i dont have a test nor can i afford one or get into docters.

How pathetic is my life right now

hey wilted,was that your post on other thread ? inzidoodle has a test to send you if you like...(if I've got it wrong apologies)

Yes your right i emailed her thanks

This is takin the piss now is anyone else getting big white blank screens for ages before anything loads? Im going to have to come of mumsnet in a minute im losing my temper

not slow here

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Just put kids to bed, Now what?

I hope you are ok today! It sounds like you have a lot on your plate for such a young person. I couldn't have coped, so you have lots of admiration from me for the great job you are doing. Your boys are lovely though I am sure they are a handful!

Thank you yogimum [amile]

I wouldn't worry too much about not knowing what to study. That makes you much more intersting to have conversations with as there are a few things that interest you.

Tey speaking to a careers advisor, and they may tell you about studies that will keep your options open.

kids seem to know when their mums are stressed, or very tired and play up just for that reason!!

wiltedrose - was it you who had another mner over a couple of weeks ago? you definitely need some GP help if you are sinking again

Hi thewiltedrose i know how you feel.
I left a job i was doing for a friend in December cos i felt she was taking advantage i had a few weeks rest and then got what i thought was an admin job for a company 5 mins from my house. Great i thought how wrong was i they had me doing any other job but admin and when i compliained they sort of shrugged n said "tough" so i left after 3 wks. After cpl weeks my son told me to claim 'the dole' so i did after having worked full time in different jobs for 30 years. I felt degraded but as my son said id paid my dues.So this has been going on since middle march iv applied for up to 15 jobs a week either emailing cv's or posting them. Iv had 2 interviews out of about 100 applications ( they were the only 2 to even have the decency to reply). Now the dole have stopped my money as i left my job .It doesnt matter ive paid my taxes for 30 years i left a job which had been falsely advertised at the job centre. My husband works and earns over the threashold for us to claim any income support and we have a mortgage we have used what little savings we had left to assist us over the last couple of weeks. So now im worried im not in debt to anyone or have anything against me, but im afraid this might start to happen. Do these companies who you apply to have no respect for the people who apply for jobs surely if a person has taken the time to apply they could have the decency to even say "thank you but no". Iv evn rang for appliction forms for jobs advertised and they have taken my name and address but not even bothered to send it. I emailed my locl college about a job they were advertising ( which is what the said you had to do) and ive never recieved that application neither. A couple iv emailed have said "email us your cv and we ring you straight back" still waiting. Most of these jobs were from the job centre. Im at my wits end my self esteem has taken a bettering my confidence is going and im worried about bills,I work all my life and cant get any help WHERE IS THE JUSTICE?

I imagine it went down the same hole as sympathy for your fellow man.

Sorry to hear your having a rough time with work and such its a bitch isnt it? Im going to study so i never have to rely on shitty temp jobs again.

Becha didnt think id be up huh? lol

Right im tired enough to try and sleep now, Night.