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34 yo friend id lost touch with died

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worldwidetravel2017 · 17/04/2025 14:44

So we had lost touch over time
We were friends when we were both in our 20s
But yeah - life happened.

Yesterday i found out she died last summer - she went to sleep & didnt wake up..

She was 34.
Just find it so sad.

Separately a very distance family member - died yesterday - he lost his cancer battle.

Life is so precious

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Hemmissus · 17/04/2025 14:50

I'm so very sorry to read of your friend and also your family member. ❤️ Life is short and news like this is very upsetting. Be gentle with yourself.

I learned that my Uncle died recently - there was a family estrangement and I didn't find out until this week. I've been thinking of him a lot.

Deadlyboss · 17/04/2025 14:52

I’m sorry. I’m with you. A guy I just met who came to tea, went out on his motorcycle a day later and that was the end of him. It’s odd because it’s so many conflicting emotions. Maybe just allow it to be wierd and emotional and crap. Very sorry .

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worldwidetravel2017 · 17/04/2025 16:09

Hemmissus · 17/04/2025 14:50

I'm so very sorry to read of your friend and also your family member. ❤️ Life is short and news like this is very upsetting. Be gentle with yourself.

I learned that my Uncle died recently - there was a family estrangement and I didn't find out until this week. I've been thinking of him a lot.

Thank you and sorry to hear re your uncle

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worldwidetravel2017 · 17/04/2025 16:10

Deadlyboss · 17/04/2025 14:52

I’m sorry. I’m with you. A guy I just met who came to tea, went out on his motorcycle a day later and that was the end of him. It’s odd because it’s so many conflicting emotions. Maybe just allow it to be wierd and emotional and crap. Very sorry .

Sorry to hear re the guy you just met too

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Hemmissus · 17/04/2025 16:10

That's kind of you ❤️

Hemmissus · 17/04/2025 16:11

Deadlyboss · 17/04/2025 14:52

I’m sorry. I’m with you. A guy I just met who came to tea, went out on his motorcycle a day later and that was the end of him. It’s odd because it’s so many conflicting emotions. Maybe just allow it to be wierd and emotional and crap. Very sorry .

Sorry to hear about your friend too - must be such a shock. Take care.

Moier · 17/04/2025 16:13

🌷🌷🌷 so sorry for your loss..yes happened to me last year.. an old friend .. very close through our teens into our 30s.. then lost touch..

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