So sad

[Clarentine]

So sad. I failed at life. Can't sleep. Why does no one love me

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You haven't failed at life! It's not over yet!!!

im sure someone loves you.

or do you just mean romantically?

how old are you??

you might be too young for this question, in which case, you have plenty of time left to feel you've succeeded at life!

Think back to what age you'd like to be, then go through which decisions you made that you would now change & what you'd miss out on if you had chosen differently. ( does that make sense to you?).

Why do you think you've failed at life OP and no one loves you? Has anything happened that makes you feel this way?

You haven't failed at life, you've made it this far haven't you!

I have no home, no job, no partner, no real friends to speak of (all distant or just aquaintances). Everyone I've ever really loved man wise has either been a shit or, not into me. Even my health has been crap lately. And I'm no spring chicken anymore. My life has lacked both direction and any real purpose. And I currently have a dose of the winter blues. And some painful dental work coming up that I'm dreading as I feel too feckin fragile atm.

But I have a roof over my head and the occasional call to adventure. Food to eat. Warm bed. Netflix. And most importantly, I love me.
It's all about perspective. Be kind to yourself. And look at the things you do have, not what you don't.

Get to your gp and see about some depression meds to get you over this tough hump. Get as much fresh air and exercise as possible. Things will get better.

You’re not a failure, and you’re not unlovable. Life can feel overwhelming, but it’s not the end of your story. I know it’s hard right now, but these feelings won’t last forever. You’re more important and valuable than you think. Take it one moment at a time you’re not alone.