I have mentioned before my nightmare situation with dsis who has gone nc with me and my family and caused me to have a strained relationship with my dm when it came to light she was helping herself to our elderly dm money
Since then I reluctantly reported the situation to office of public guardians in January then adult safeguarding in July who referred it to the police. Heard from opg in July when I emailed them to say the police were now investigating it that due to a backlog it hadn't even been assigned to anyone
So not to drip feed dsis has since going nc removed me as poa done an equity release on dm house and dm advised me she thinks she's changed her will
I've really struggled with all of this as we were a close family and despite dm giving dsis tens of thousands over the years to bail her out I never asked where mine or questioned it until she did it by using the banking app without dm knowing and even then I only warned dsis she may get in trouble
So today i rang the police for an update they had seen dm and were closing the investigation unless opg came up with something and as their backlog is 3 months i should hear soon yet I reported it January
I've been in tears all day and feel like I am about to have a panic attack I feel so let down and hurt by dm probably not her fault she's elderly and not sure on her capacity by dsis for treating me and my dc like this by the police and opg
I've done nothing never had a penny of dm money as I am adult so pay my own way unlike dsis yet I've been excluded from family events i presume dsis has bad mouthed me to family friends as they also don't speak to us including her best friend which is my dh cousin who as their dm were twins they grew up together