Mum 4plus kids, additional needs as well. Hubby has seizures due to stress and hasn’t worked for a long time. I work usually part time in accountancy. Most days he needs to go back to bed due to feeling unwell . He looks unwell with it. This means everything is left to me. Will take kids out when well and does garden . He occasionally goes out to a new group and is never unwell. If he goes away he isn’t unwell .only whilst home is he ill. AIBU.to separate ? Kids are getting older so may be it’s me that makes him ill ? He has chronic OCD and other conditions. I can’t carry on like this . I am beyond tired and just feel like I’m here to serve everyone else . We are long time married