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Need good excuse for 2 days absence

18 replies

StonesRosa · 24/11/2023 21:56

I cannot face work on Monday and need one/two days off. I need a good strong reason but unsure what to say? I cannot state MH.

Ive no choice and apologise as I can’t provide any further details.

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ElevenSeven · 24/11/2023 21:57

Why can’t you state MH?

KindaDefinitelyMaybe · 24/11/2023 21:57

Gastro. Two days min. Do you get sick pay?

StonesRosa · 24/11/2023 21:59

@KindaDefinitelyMaybe yes and thanks. I don’t like doing this but I have to to save my sanity.

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nhsmumm · 24/11/2023 22:01

Migraine, inner ear infection

Coffeesnob11 · 24/11/2023 22:03

Diarrhoea and vomiting/food poisoning

Mumaway · 24/11/2023 22:06

D&V, as there's good guidance about staying away from many work/school settings to back up staying away

OhGingleBells · 24/11/2023 22:06

Migraine. I presume you are going through something stressful. If you do end up giving anyone any details of that then it is possible that it brought on a migraine so you wouldn’t have to admit to it not being true.

Better than a short term bug or ear infection as you can have multiple migraines throughout the year without it seeming suspicious. Buy a pack of the nurofen that specify for migraines on the front and carry them round and occasionally offer them to people where appropriate. If you are a contact lens wearer then pop your glasses on instead on the day you go back to work.

GreatGateauxsby · 24/11/2023 22:07

Food poisoning leading to D&V or a migraine

MistyTrains2 · 25/11/2023 02:05

Reaction to flu jab.

Thequeenofwishfulthinking · 25/11/2023 02:07

Vomiting bug for the 48 hour rule.

ChristmasBarginShop · 25/11/2023 02:15

Say D&V if you have to , 48 hour rule and all that.

Don't say you have a migraine. I suffer with them and it's so difficult to get this condition accepted as a genie reason for absence as it is.

Grumpynan · 25/11/2023 02:42

D&V no one will want to see you with that

LadyLolaRuben · 25/11/2023 02:59

Viral infection. Vague and non-specific.

Good on you for taking self care. It helps reduce mental health issues by taking proaction

DPotter · 25/11/2023 03:37

D & V

Hope you're getting the support you need

LadyGaGasPokerFace · 25/11/2023 04:03

I agree with D&V. If you need more time you can get signed off by your GP for two weeks. I have done this for stress and anxiety. I hope you get the help you need.

Grendell · 25/11/2023 04:20

My boss always uses migraine.

justanothermanicmonday1 · 25/11/2023 04:29

Always the vomiting bug. That way you have a minimum 48 hours.

curaçao · 25/11/2023 05:10

Say its emergency time off fir a dependant ( eg child or elderly relative)because this is legally protected , they have to count this sepaeately and are on thin ice if they use it for any disciplinary proceedings

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