I'm married with 2 DC, I recently lost my mum and went for a weekend away to try clear my mind. I went and stayed in a friends villa (she was also there doing renovations)
A guy who I met at work recently and built a strange connection with regarding grief etc is also married has lost his mum too recently and when I said I was going away asked if there's spare rooms to come too (it's a b&b villa so there is) as he needed to clear his mind so he came too...i didn't tell my H as I hardly saw him while I was there and the OM told his wife it was a work trip as he didn't think she would see it as a friendship kinda thing but now his wife has found out and is threatening my marriage and knows where I live etc threatening to tell my H it was physical and I'm living in fear when I've not actually done anything wrong other than not tell my H he was there....
What do I do? I know I should have told my H but I feel like we've had some problems within our relationship recently and he will put two and two together when it's completely unrelated...