i have a very good friend who i trust with absolutely everything in life. the other day i ended up in hospital and she was the first i informed of why etc and yes i put a lot on her but shes the only person i trust know these things.
i have since found out today that her partner is now not happy with me for putting it on her etc and i am no longer welcome around their house etc until i am better etc
i get that its hard to take on someone elses troubles but for the person to then to made to feel even worse about it all and potentioally lose a friend due to their partner not being understanding in mh is just heart breaking.
more of a rant than a question