hello, me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years and just recently had our son, who is nearly 3 weeks old. from the start of our relationship he has lied to me a lot about his past relationships with girls he spoke to online (also spoke to 2 girls while me and him had just started our relationship) obviously this caused me to not trust him a lot but before i had our son i found out more stuff he had lied about. he denies it all, says he 'doesn't remember' or turns it onto my past mistakes. we haven't discussed it since our sim was born. but how do i get over this anxiety? i can't relax properly and seek to find more stuff out, even though it hurts me. i feel sick constantly and a feeling of my heart dropping to my tummy :/
why did he ever feel the need to lie to me? why does he make excuses? and how do i deal with the anxiety?
i'm willing to move past it of course but it is hard when i don't know how to, when he won't answer my questions