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Logansmama19 · 23/01/2022 19:40

Recently my oh is saying some stuff I'm not happy with. We've two kids a 2 year old and a 7 month old.... he works 6 days a week, which I'm grateful for, I don't gave a car he does which he takes to work. So I'm home with rhe kids all the time. My oldest has been having night terrors so I'm basically settling him back down and having roughly 90 mins sleep a day. While the othe half's at work I'll do the washing drying of clothes washing the pots, bathing the two kids and taking two dogs out for a walk plus cleaning. When he walks in he'll be like your just lazy it's messy ( 2 Yr old will mess the house up in seconds) if teas not cooked he'll pull his face. Then he complains he's been at work for 10 hours and is shattered. I'm at breaking point.... Little things he keeps saying like oh ds wants hid own bedroom in his own house so you should move out.

While typing this in close to tears as I had a slight meltdown and wanted peace and quite. Other half announces I'm off to bed and low and behold leaves the kids with me...

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HairyScaryMonster · 23/01/2022 19:51

My love! Sounds like you're both working hard but he's being a complete arse. hopefully it won't take long to put children to bed. Leave everything for tomorrow (if he comments that's what doing nothing looks like) and put your feet up.

You do need to reconsider this relationship though, he sounds horrible.

Logansmama19 · 23/01/2022 20:00

At the start of the relationship it was fantastic used to bring me gifts for nothing just because he wanted to. I'm emotionally drained and I can not take any more. Its like da was just sick oh shouted me to help while he ran him a bath and then oh walked in to the bed room saw I was there and walked out....

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