Hi
I have a friend of several years. Last year had a depressive episode and went off the scene for a few months, ignoring my messages etc. eventually came back, apologetic etc. he said I was the only friend who persisted to try and Maintain contact and that was a big part of his recovery.
we have been back in frequent touch since but the last couple days it’s happened again. He’s told me it’s happening but said if I take it personally it will make things worse. But it’s difficult not too. It’s not like he is local and I can just pop in - we now live four hours away.
I don’t know what I’m asking really. I guess I’m finding the whole thing difficult x