Having relationship probs, dh all lovey dovey cos he wants it, but is a very selfish, chauvanistic male normally, we have very different parenting regimes,ideas on life in general , have talked about seperating but says he loves me and I'm too ccoward to admit we have changed, we have children which makes things more difficult. Dad died 10 yrs ago, cant talk to mum as shes not moved on, no real friends. ok, not that bad when you write it down. sorry , rant over.