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1st thread starting on the topic and i'm pretty pis*ed off.

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:19

BIL just messaged me to say that he is exhausted cos his been at the gym. well big whoop. dh cant barely get out of bed most days and do i really care about the gym.

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Kayleigh · 25/10/2004 22:21

My guess is he just wasn't thinking misdee. Case of putting his very large foot in his mouth. Would he really want to upset you on purpose ?

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:22

he is always putting his foot in his mouth. when his dd was born she had a bent leg (needed physio but is fine). said to mieow, i do hope it isnt CP. grrrrrrr.

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EvesMama · 25/10/2004 22:22

havent read all threads, but have gatherd your dh his rather poorly?
your bil problems are worse becasue they are his! its the same with everyone, we do get caught up in our own lives and neglect thinking of others (well we dont cos were all here now arnt we?)
tell him what a hard time dh is having without trying to say his tiredness is not important and im sure he'll click and realize that hes lucckier than he thought.x

Kayleigh · 25/10/2004 22:24

sounds like he rarely bothers taking his foot out of his mouth

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:25

he elabes his shoe in there to make it quicker.

dont like to dismiss people problems, but he relly doesnt think most days. his nice and all, but dear me.

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:25

leaves, not that elabes. whatrever that means.

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marthamoo · 25/10/2004 22:27

Is this miaow's dh? Yikes!

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:28

noooo!! not mieows dh. he is sensitive.

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marthamoo · 25/10/2004 22:28

I was wondering what she was going to say when she read this!!!! Oh well, I'll join in then - he sounds like a plonker

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:29

she'll join in as well.

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mieow · 25/10/2004 22:30

I remember that Misdee, he phoned me at 2am in the morning to say my sister had the baby, I was very happy till he mentioned the bent foot, and then turned round and said "Oh I hope its not CP!!" even though the midwife had said to them it wasn't CP and it was just the position she was in, in the womb. I was quite upset by that, as it felt that he didn't accept my kids

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:31

see i told you she'd join in.

he makes me mad sometimes. and upset. now i'm off to the gym..........

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mieow · 25/10/2004 22:32

he is annoying, and gets very p*ssed off with BIL as he doesn't think, a bit like our other sister, a good match really!!!

mieow · 25/10/2004 22:33

sorry that should have been "DH gets p*ssed off"

Kayleigh · 25/10/2004 22:33

how unfeeling misdee. you just don't think. You know I can't go to the gym because i'm just too bone idle

marthamoo · 25/10/2004 22:33

You two make me laugh Your other sister isn't a MNer I take it?

mieow · 25/10/2004 22:35

no, she finds the site strange appartantly!!

mieow · 25/10/2004 22:36

hehe

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:43

god i hope she dont pop on here. i'll be hiding for weeks.

remember the dribbling incident mieow?

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mieow · 25/10/2004 22:50

hehe, what when BIl hated the fact that DS dibbles, and one day he was giving DS a shoulder carry and DS dibbled in his hair, and I didn't tell him evil

mieow · 25/10/2004 22:51

dribbles!! even, god my spelling is terrible

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:52

yup. that make me giggle for ages.

we better stop.

btw scan went ok, pics were crap tho.

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mieow · 25/10/2004 22:54

good, was DD1 ok when I brought her home?

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misdee · 25/10/2004 22:55

yeah she was fine. sent them out in the garden. some neighbours cat been using my garden for a poo tray tho.

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coppertop · 25/10/2004 22:55

LOL at dribbling ds and his revenge on BIL!