I’m trying as hard as I can to get someone to listen bpd they say the cause is childhood trauma not possible as no one person would react the same as the trauma be different. Bpd sufferers like clones their way of thinking how they see peope what they believe is how life is lives how peope do stuff. All clones. Ergo it’s more likely nine eve received unconditional love. Doctors think the two descriptors or over spending and addiction is brain related that’s not possible as Bpd isn’t brain controlled. The medical profession only see them when they ill. They don’t see anything that the patient don’t even know themselves. I do. I see that our head makes us see stuff to manipulate. Our head also tells us we can’t do stuff we need someone. We believe that peope are bad because Of us. I need help please to give doctors the other side. I’m only person I know actually see it. I have proof I lost three years to borrow abuse cos my head lied when I realised that My head made it up. Then after 40’years thinking I can’t study and grow as no one cares and can’t do it alone. My head again. I write on groups and people with this call me names. They don’t want to be told we are real idiots abusers and deluded. Look I need someone to just listen because having doctors not know stuff and get it all wrong is pretty bad