My wife just informed me that she has gone back on the pill for various reasons, mainly skin and period pains. She did it without telling me and then lied about it and even faked a period.
It may sound weird to say 'she did it without telling me' but she has been on and off pills for the past 2.5 years. She has taken two types of pill - one contraceptive Loestrin and the other anti depressant Citalopram.
In the last 31 months she has had 11 months without taking one of them. In the last 25 months she has only had 6 months off them, with only a maximum of 2 months at a time without them. In other words she comes off one then goes on another and so on.
I am really concerned that all this has affected her mental health. There has been a lot of stuff to suggest that she is all over the place, but she won't listen to me about it all.
I suppose my question is - am I wrong to think that all this intermittent pill taking is a problem?
Thanks for any advice and support.