Things are much better financially for the past 18m but I still feel depressed

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Will I ever feel happier before the finance problems came up 10 yrs ago. As dh went self employed with a business partner who was a lazy ass, my hubby got rid of him 18 m ago. It was the best thing he ever did.

Or do I give it time or is it something I've got to learn myself that we aren't in that situation anymore.

I've been with my hubby for 18 yrs and married 5 yrs. Got 3 kids age 6, 9 and 13.

Help

Thanks

Is there someone you could discuss this with in RL or could you talk about it with your dh? Stress and anxiety can stay in your system for a long time even when the initial cause has long gone. Perhaps writing it all down might help too, comparing the situation your were once in and the situation you are now in so you can see clearly that things have changed for the better.